"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Little tricks to become better looking and the type of guy hotties are dating

vatoloco

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What happens when the contacts come off?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That is ridiculous, I have several friends with blue/green eyes that don't do as well as I do (brown) I think eyes are just one feature but not going to make that much of a difference. Not compared to having game, being confident(something ive lacked in lately), successful etc matters more. If you were going to say one feature I'd say height, I'm not really tall but taller than average (6 4") and it seems to matter way more than eye color.
 

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drf408 said:
That is ridiculous, I have several friends with blue/green eyes that don't do as well as I do (brown) I think eyes are just one feature but not going to make that much of a difference. Not compared to having game, being confident(something ive lacked in lately), successful etc matters more. If you were going to say one feature I'd say height, I'm not really tall but taller than average (6 4") and it seems to matter way more than eye color.
^Very, very true. ^ As I said earlier I think blue eyes can help. But I agree height is really always a true decider. No chick wants to date a dude shorter than her. I felt a little insecure myself when I was just barely taller than my GF. I'm like 5'11 I think she's 5'9 -5'10
 
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