"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What happens when the contacts come off?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That is ridiculous, I have several friends with blue/green eyes that don't do as well as I do (brown) I think eyes are just one feature but not going to make that much of a difference. Not compared to having game, being confident(something ive lacked in lately), successful etc matters more. If you were going to say one feature I'd say height, I'm not really tall but taller than average (6 4") and it seems to matter way more than eye color.
 
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drf408 said:
That is ridiculous, I have several friends with blue/green eyes that don't do as well as I do (brown) I think eyes are just one feature but not going to make that much of a difference. Not compared to having game, being confident(something ive lacked in lately), successful etc matters more. If you were going to say one feature I'd say height, I'm not really tall but taller than average (6 4") and it seems to matter way more than eye color.
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^Very, very true. ^ As I said earlier I think blue eyes can help. But I agree height is really always a true decider. No chick wants to date a dude shorter than her. I felt a little insecure myself when I was just barely taller than my GF. I'm like 5'11 I think she's 5'9 -5'10
 
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