"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Little Success Story for all the Virgins

SamMalone

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Ok guys, I'm 22, never had any success with women, always shy, ect. I thought I would be a loser my whole life.

I became a huge alcoholic last august when my grandfather died and I dont remember much of last fall. Anyways, around Novemeber I got a moment of clarity and stopped drinking. I started working out and took good care of myself.

Last week, I got the balls to ask a girl over I wanted to ask over for months. She accepted, and I lost my virginity the night she came over. She came back two nights later, tonight, and we did it again. This girl really LIKES me, and not only that, she says I'm the best lover she's ever had because I listen to what SHE likes (she does not know I was a virgin, she thinks I was experienced).

What a boost of confidence. This goes to show everyone that you can do it. You don't have to be perfect, just take a few chances and you can do it too I have this hottie in my bed right now but I can not sleep because I'm so excited.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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your good friend is paying her to sleep with you.



just kidding, i have no room to talk. good work :up:
 

lordson

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very good mate, now don't screw it up by being too clingy and doting on her
 
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Well done, man. How refreshing to see someone actually manning up and making something happen rather than coming on here and whining. Repped.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Prodigy746

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Congrats, like someone said , dont bee too needy clingy now. Use everything you learned here and you will be alright.
 

Deadly_Assassin

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Awesome stuff man. Its time I picked my balls and did the same.
 
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