"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Little Success Story for all the Virgins

SamMalone

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Ok guys, I'm 22, never had any success with women, always shy, ect. I thought I would be a loser my whole life.

I became a huge alcoholic last august when my grandfather died and I dont remember much of last fall. Anyways, around Novemeber I got a moment of clarity and stopped drinking. I started working out and took good care of myself.

Last week, I got the balls to ask a girl over I wanted to ask over for months. She accepted, and I lost my virginity the night she came over. She came back two nights later, tonight, and we did it again. This girl really LIKES me, and not only that, she says I'm the best lover she's ever had because I listen to what SHE likes (she does not know I was a virgin, she thinks I was experienced).

What a boost of confidence. This goes to show everyone that you can do it. You don't have to be perfect, just take a few chances and you can do it too I have this hottie in my bed right now but I can not sleep because I'm so excited.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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your good friend is paying her to sleep with you.



just kidding, i have no room to talk. good work :up:
 

lordson

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very good mate, now don't screw it up by being too clingy and doting on her
 
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Well done, man. How refreshing to see someone actually manning up and making something happen rather than coming on here and whining. Repped.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Prodigy746

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Congrats, like someone said , dont bee too needy clingy now. Use everything you learned here and you will be alright.
 

Deadly_Assassin

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Awesome stuff man. Its time I picked my balls and did the same.
 
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