"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I'm getting rely good at meeting grls off the net. I meet this girl after a week of chatting online. She brings 2 friends with. Of course I ended up liking one of her friends :D Now I'm stuck. I'm sure her friend likes me due to my body language skills, flirting, she kept complimenting me and seemed diapointed when I left.

I was talking to another grl I know who knows them and i told her I liked her friend. Shes gone and told the grl I like.

Now I dunno what to do?

I think I need to get her number or msn.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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should of told her yourself, she'd probably like you double than before for confidence. be honest and tell her it's true. cause it is right!?
 
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shall I txt the grl I met to say hi what ya been upto,

she'll reply n say something about me liking her friend.

or

should I go about it by getting the grl I likes mobile or msn and follow it up?
 
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talk to her face to face. do not ever text girls about crap. you must speak face to face. get her number if you see her face to face. if she does go on msn, yeah sure, why not. but call her. try to keep contact offline more than online happening. fuk the friend, get the girls number, the one you like.
 
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Ok will do. The only time I could catch her is as about 3pm and she'll be with her friend who likes me :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you'd have to try get her alone. if you can't catch her alone. you'll have to grab your ballz and tell her you want to talk to her for a moment (if her friend is around). then ask her. or you can just wait until she's alone. up to you.
 
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Hey,
i kno tha u lk vickie n im totally fine wiv it, well obviously i werent wen i found out bout it and now i dun rele care lol. I know that i was a lil quiet but who aint wen they go n meet sum1 4 the first time eh? neways i think uve blocked me on msn, if u dun wana unblock me n be freinds its ur loss not mine...
aimz

her message today, rekon u'll be able to read into what she means and how much damage has been done?
 
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DAYAM!

I'd block her too. It gave me a headache to read that.

Go for the girl you like man. She was giving you permission to.
 
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seriously hope so that would make my year :D
 
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shot down 3rd time over the last 2 weeks now.

That girl was too into me so her friend would never go for me now. I jus finished a lil convo on MSN with her and verbally destroyed her so no going back now. NEXT!!!!

never shoot, never score, who dares wins.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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and I said to myself NEXT with a smile on my face, her loss. She knows I liked her, her friend who I met says shes not intrested. I log on to MSN and the girl I NEXTED has added me to her list. Havnt spoken to her on it yet. Now I'm in limbo n need to know what she wants? friendship or whatever.

It's playing on me now, I'm waiting for her to come online, I need closure so badly. What you guys think she wants?
 
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