"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So I'm getting rely good at meeting grls off the net. I meet this girl after a week of chatting online. She brings 2 friends with. Of course I ended up liking one of her friends :D Now I'm stuck. I'm sure her friend likes me due to my body language skills, flirting, she kept complimenting me and seemed diapointed when I left.

I was talking to another grl I know who knows them and i told her I liked her friend. Shes gone and told the grl I like.

Now I dunno what to do?

I think I need to get her number or msn.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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should of told her yourself, she'd probably like you double than before for confidence. be honest and tell her it's true. cause it is right!?
 
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shall I txt the grl I met to say hi what ya been upto,

she'll reply n say something about me liking her friend.

or

should I go about it by getting the grl I likes mobile or msn and follow it up?
 
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talk to her face to face. do not ever text girls about crap. you must speak face to face. get her number if you see her face to face. if she does go on msn, yeah sure, why not. but call her. try to keep contact offline more than online happening. fuk the friend, get the girls number, the one you like.
 
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Ok will do. The only time I could catch her is as about 3pm and she'll be with her friend who likes me :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you'd have to try get her alone. if you can't catch her alone. you'll have to grab your ballz and tell her you want to talk to her for a moment (if her friend is around). then ask her. or you can just wait until she's alone. up to you.
 
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Hey,
i kno tha u lk vickie n im totally fine wiv it, well obviously i werent wen i found out bout it and now i dun rele care lol. I know that i was a lil quiet but who aint wen they go n meet sum1 4 the first time eh? neways i think uve blocked me on msn, if u dun wana unblock me n be freinds its ur loss not mine...
aimz

her message today, rekon u'll be able to read into what she means and how much damage has been done?
 
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DAYAM!

I'd block her too. It gave me a headache to read that.

Go for the girl you like man. She was giving you permission to.
 
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seriously hope so that would make my year :D
 
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shot down 3rd time over the last 2 weeks now.

That girl was too into me so her friend would never go for me now. I jus finished a lil convo on MSN with her and verbally destroyed her so no going back now. NEXT!!!!

never shoot, never score, who dares wins.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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and I said to myself NEXT with a smile on my face, her loss. She knows I liked her, her friend who I met says shes not intrested. I log on to MSN and the girl I NEXTED has added me to her list. Havnt spoken to her on it yet. Now I'm in limbo n need to know what she wants? friendship or whatever.

It's playing on me now, I'm waiting for her to come online, I need closure so badly. What you guys think she wants?
 
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