little problem

[Slippery Sam]

I'm 17, I really appreciate what this site has done for me and just saying thank you doesn't really seem like enough. I do have a little issue that I would like some information about and it is that when I'm f*cking my girlfriend I just cannot come. Today we went at it for 45min and I got nothing and this is kind of scary for me because of my age. Is there anything I can do to make sex better or just come easier? My girlfriend got kind of annoyed that I didn't come and things did not go too well, I think she's blaming herself which is just wrong.

 

[Recon]

I assume that you guys have been having sex frequently. Sometimes guys just have trouble coming, and yours in an issue that many people would LOVE to have.

I would try having her give you more foreplay, and when your close as she's giving you head then try sticking it in and going for it.

I'm not a sex expert though, so that's about the only advice i can give you.

 

[eaglez1177]

I'm 17, I really appreciate what this site has done for me and just saying thank you doesn't really seem like enough. I do have a little issue that I would like some information about and it is that when I'm f*cking my girlfriend I just cannot come. Today we went at it for 45min and I got nothing and this is kind of scary for me because of my age. Is there anything I can do to make sex better or just come easier? My girlfriend got kind of annoyed that I didn't come and things did not go too well, I think she's blaming herself which is just wrong.

1. First off, be THANKFUL that you can last long. Many, many teenage guys have a very hard time simply holding their come in, so at least your on the other end of the stick. Better to have sex for a while then to only last five minutes.

2. What kind of condom are you using? If your not using that great of a condom, you wont really feel as much, and thus wont be able to come. I use Trojan Ecstasy, and it works great.

3. Maybe its time for your gf to try the pill, so you dont have to use a condom at all

4. Try going faster and doing some dirty talk too...that'll usually get you more aroused and closing to coming.

 

[Slippery Sam]

Thanks for the quick reply, you guys are pretty perceptive. We have been doing it frequently and I know that it is good to last, because I practice kegels and whatnot trying to control. This time (the 45min one) was getting ridiculous tho, because she was getting tired, and I was using the ecstasy condom. Btw she is on the pill but right now is her off week so she can still get her period. I am used to the wonderful feeling of not using one, but I still have needs . Im just gonna get her to blow me some more see how that works. Thanks again.

 

[Colerbear]

Your lucky as hell. The first time i had sex the condom broke when i put it in, and i lasted about 3 minutes cause it felltt sooooo good

 

[BigJimbo]

Wow, I have the opposite problem. I tend to get too turned on at the totally wrong times - locker room, practice field, classroom, etc. I mean really turned on. I wouldn't last for more than a minute with your play pal.

45 minutes! I am done and sleeping before the 10 minute mark. Being totally serious about that as well.

 

[Slippery Sam]

for you guys that come after 10min or so, do you satisfy your girls?