"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Little Problem

Italia

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Should I date a senior though I'm a Junior?
I think if i date this girl and if it lasts for a couple of months, then she will be in College while i'm in HS... To me that sounds scary... Do you guys think this is just going to end messy..?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jeffthechef

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My friend was in the same situation last year..a junior guy went out with this senior girl..well she left for a whole different country for college and they agreed to a LDR..which i would never be ok with..especially in hs..

it's been 3 days and i haven't talke dto him yet so i don't know how things are going with him..i'll know in a couple weeks..

i would say that it's fine to go with her now...but be ready to lose her after the year's over..but hey, you should always be with the knowledge that any girl can leave you at any time..never expect things not to change BECAUSE EVERYTHING/EVERYONE IS ALWAYS CHANGING..so remember that

it all comes down to waht you want...if you want a "serious" relationship for a year..then do it..but if you want lots of action..id suggest you try to get a fwb thing going on with her..if she agrees


so it will only end messy if you become emotionally attached..which is ALWAYS bad..don't get obsessed..just enjoy your time
 

Stblack

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I'm dating a senior and I'm a junior. I know she is leaving at the end of the year. It's kind of sad, but I figure that if we do last that long, a year is a good bit of time away. Her and I will have our fun. I don't think I could do a ldr. I'll just move on I guess. It doesn't help to worry about it
 

eaglez1177

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Well first off, I would STRONGLY advise against going out with her when shes in college. That stuff NEVER works, trust me.

That being said, this could be a great opportunity to get in a lot of sex practice, and get ready to fvck a lot of chicks when ur a senior or going into college.

Just make a note to her though that once she goes to college, things will change, and dont get too attached, your gonna have to be able to let go at the end of the year.
 
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