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Italia

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Should I date a senior though I'm a Junior?
I think if i date this girl and if it lasts for a couple of months, then she will be in College while i'm in HS... To me that sounds scary... Do you guys think this is just going to end messy..?
 

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My friend was in the same situation last year..a junior guy went out with this senior girl..well she left for a whole different country for college and they agreed to a LDR..which i would never be ok with..especially in hs..

it's been 3 days and i haven't talke dto him yet so i don't know how things are going with him..i'll know in a couple weeks..

i would say that it's fine to go with her now...but be ready to lose her after the year's over..but hey, you should always be with the knowledge that any girl can leave you at any time..never expect things not to change BECAUSE EVERYTHING/EVERYONE IS ALWAYS CHANGING..so remember that

it all comes down to waht you want...if you want a "serious" relationship for a year..then do it..but if you want lots of action..id suggest you try to get a fwb thing going on with her..if she agrees


so it will only end messy if you become emotionally attached..which is ALWAYS bad..don't get obsessed..just enjoy your time
 
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I'm dating a senior and I'm a junior. I know she is leaving at the end of the year. It's kind of sad, but I figure that if we do last that long, a year is a good bit of time away. Her and I will have our fun. I don't think I could do a ldr. I'll just move on I guess. It doesn't help to worry about it
 
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Well first off, I would STRONGLY advise against going out with her when shes in college. That stuff NEVER works, trust me.

That being said, this could be a great opportunity to get in a lot of sex practice, and get ready to fvck a lot of chicks when ur a senior or going into college.

Just make a note to her though that once she goes to college, things will change, and dont get too attached, your gonna have to be able to let go at the end of the year.
 
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