"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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listening to womens problems

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Just a thought

How do you listen to a women you genuinely care about (say, just a platonic female friend) without becoming her emotional tampon?

What is the right way to do it so that the woman will end up liking you instead of thinking you're weak? We all know there are some awesome men out there who can listen to a girl talk about her problems but still turn it into something wonderful for them
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She already has a tampon, she doesn't need another one. Tell her to shut up playfully, or kiss her to get her to stop talking.
 
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Negative. Listening to her emotional problems is an expressway to Emotionaltamponville if you are not in an LTR with her. It's the reaction to the cause. Sure, you can win the lottery, but the odds are very against you. You will most likely lose your dollar. Save your dollar.
 
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Yes just tell her talk to her girlfriends about that. Even if you don't like her. Or at least just change the subject. Make a loud buzzer sound like "BEHHHH Negative Talk Stops Now!" and talk about something else.
 
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so what do you do if shes feeling bad about a lost loved one or something serious. do you still be there for her??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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