"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Listen to this!

ImpatientFire

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Over the long period that it took me to become a DJ and improve myself, I found out that listening to music helps me a lot in focusing. One of my favorites is a song by DoubleDrive, it's called '"Imprint". I like to imagine that life is like a mountain or something, and my goal is the top of the mountain. The times I feel frustrated, I feel I'm stuck at a difficult spot on the mountain and in order to move forward, I just need to put in effort and keep on climbing. This song helps to focus on what's important, and keeps me climbing. I just thought I'd share this with you guys, and see if I could inspire others to keep on climbing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This should be in Tips, no?

This sounds like the NLP thing of using (a) trigger(s) for changing one's state. Usually they do it with some manner of a physical gesture, but using music, dressing well, whatever--fall within this concept too. Useful stuff...
 

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Yeah, you are right this should be in the tips forum (my mistake :D), and yes it's a form of NLP.
 

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I like to listen to Lose Yourself by eminem I like how he says "you only got one shot don't miss your chance to flow" it gets me moving on doing something instead of getting stuck in the rut.
 
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