"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Listen to seduction material while sarging

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This will work if you have a mp3 player or ipod. Download seduction material that lasts for hours. The masters like Style, or Tyler Durden, or Loverboy, and play this all the time. Do not listen to music. Do not talk to people who are ugly. What this does is put you in the right frame of mind and so when you see that hot chick, you can easily press pause and go up. It's like having your own personal instructor pushing you to sarge.
You know how sometimes you know that if there was a friend pushing you, then you'd probably go talk to her; but because you're alone you might not have the guts (if you're a newbie). Well listening to the audio will be the same as having someone push you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Hey, what's on that iPod? Can I listen?"
 
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I actually ended up using your tip (I always bring my I-Pod around anyway that way I can hook it up to her stereo or computer if I end up at her place). My I-Pod and I sort of have this oneitis thing going on now, but thats besides the point.

Actually I'd like to do you one better. The newer I-Pods have an option where you can store notes. As a result I'm thinking of putting my openers, convo topics, weird facts (aka convo savers), counters, and closers in my I-Pod notes secton.

However just to be safe I'll make it like cracking a safe by putting folders named New Folder 1, New Folder 2......all the way to New Folder 20 and put them in every other folder. This way getting to my material will be like entiring a combo in a safe for example: New Folder 12, New Folder 5, New Folder 8, New Folder 14, BAM, DJ material.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shiningshadow said:
"Hey, what's on that iPod? Can I listen?"
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Look at her with a sly smile, "I'm listening to tips on how to pick you up!"

Ofcourse she won't believe you and then you can just neg her or joke around even more. These are situations where the more honest you are, the more likely she thinks you're lying. So you can get away with anything.

milrenkb, that sounds cool.

A good idea would be to have the audio to what you want to say so that there will never be any freeze outs.

Have you guys seen David Letterman where he gets Rupert Gee to say what he says on the hidden microphone? It's like that, but in this case, they think you're listening to music.
 
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