Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Listen to seduction material while sarging

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This will work if you have a mp3 player or ipod. Download seduction material that lasts for hours. The masters like Style, or Tyler Durden, or Loverboy, and play this all the time. Do not listen to music. Do not talk to people who are ugly. What this does is put you in the right frame of mind and so when you see that hot chick, you can easily press pause and go up. It's like having your own personal instructor pushing you to sarge.
You know how sometimes you know that if there was a friend pushing you, then you'd probably go talk to her; but because you're alone you might not have the guts (if you're a newbie). Well listening to the audio will be the same as having someone push you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Hey, what's on that iPod? Can I listen?"
 

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I actually ended up using your tip (I always bring my I-Pod around anyway that way I can hook it up to her stereo or computer if I end up at her place). My I-Pod and I sort of have this oneitis thing going on now, but thats besides the point.

Actually I'd like to do you one better. The newer I-Pods have an option where you can store notes. As a result I'm thinking of putting my openers, convo topics, weird facts (aka convo savers), counters, and closers in my I-Pod notes secton.

However just to be safe I'll make it like cracking a safe by putting folders named New Folder 1, New Folder 2......all the way to New Folder 20 and put them in every other folder. This way getting to my material will be like entiring a combo in a safe for example: New Folder 12, New Folder 5, New Folder 8, New Folder 14, BAM, DJ material.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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shiningshadow said:
"Hey, what's on that iPod? Can I listen?"
Look at her with a sly smile, "I'm listening to tips on how to pick you up!"

Ofcourse she won't believe you and then you can just neg her or joke around even more. These are situations where the more honest you are, the more likely she thinks you're lying. So you can get away with anything.

milrenkb, that sounds cool.

A good idea would be to have the audio to what you want to say so that there will never be any freeze outs.

Have you guys seen David Letterman where he gets Rupert Gee to say what he says on the hidden microphone? It's like that, but in this case, they think you're listening to music.
 
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