"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Listen to her, or not?

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SmackinIsaiah

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Bottom line, my one-itis has told me that she finds a friend knocking on her window at night, all she thinks about is that maybe, maybe it's me. I planned on doing so tonight, subtly asking if she'd be in tonite. She was in a pretty ****ty mood about school and a couple friends of hers, and said please don't think of knocking on my window tonight, I'm close to ripping someone's head off and you don't want to be it."

So she signed off and went to bed about a half hour ago, do I abide by her wish, or surprise her and show up?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ProtoMan1

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If you want to come across as a stalker, yes go knock on her window.
 
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SmackinIsaiah

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Despite the fact that she has said everytime she hears a knock, she's wishing it's me.
 
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ProtoMan1

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Ask her out on a date. lol. That is a better alternative, opposed to just randomly knocking on her window at night. Just a bad idea.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dannyrt34

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That's some freaky stuff man. I'd say go throw rocks at her window instead.

No just kidding, but really that is some weird stuff. I never heard anybody so intrigued by a knock on the window. Imagine what the world would be like if 'knocking on the window' was the new form of romance, or seduction.

"Hey guys, I knocked on that one chick's window last night, she was lovin it!"

I dunno man, I think you should skip the whole window thing.
 
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It seems kind of highschoolish, but her window is right on the main floor and she can kind of slip out of it. The only thing that's deterring me is the fact that she said not to come tonight. Yet I keep echoing what she said before about wishing it was me everytime.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go for it. Make sure you're in a fantastic fvcking mood. She'll get infected by it and forever link you to feeling great. Trust me, chicks really take stuff like this to heart. Months later, i'd still hear "you make me feel really great when i feel down!! :)"
 
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Paradigm Artisan

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Hey man, why not do it? She only clearly said

please don't think of knocking on my window tonight, I'm close to ripping someone's head off and you don't want to be it.
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If I ever heard an offer for sex, it would be that.

Yea man, having sex headless is all the rage.

Advice 1. Run far away from your one-itis. One-itises are known for turning brave men into cowards, plus she has the power to rip your head off? Yip!!

2. Stop throwing rocks, you can poke somebodies eye out.

3. I don't know, but I couldn't stop at just 2.

Sorry dude, women have a lot of different meanings, but that isn't one.

But hell, I would love to read what will happen if you actually do it. :crackup:
 
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Yeah, she warmed up as the conversation progressed, but eventually went to bed bout an hour and a half ago. I think I'm going to play it safe here and not go tonight, perhaps tomorrow.
 
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