You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lol...at the "Womp Womp" thing...Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
I said I didnt want comments like yours in this thread...Sh1t, I dont want to fukk a girl for free like most dudes, if I want to just ***, I can go in the bathroom and jack off in the toilet...If she wants me that bad, she better pay the price...So now Im gonna stick my d1ck in your ear and fukk what you think...
What's wrong with this thread ??Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
I got it....Thanks for the support people...Thats whats really good, this is how it should be done...People who know what they are talking about giving real advice, not that fanimitzu dude flaming everyone...I almost got banned for this thread and that fool is still going...
Look at where your at Real. You know...sun blocked land...wink wink...these WB's are nice guys. Which is why they are stuck on this site with no ho's.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
What's wrong with this thread ??
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes it is a paradox. There are more than one path to the game. Just as long as you step into it and play it.Originally posted by Aresx
i guess this is the result of "i am the prize" taken to it's fullest extent.
sorry to criticize you earlier. just don't think it's right to use people. unless they use you.
but i guess if she knows what's up, it's her doing it, not you. if you come out with the "hey, if you wanna get with this, you gotta pay the price" attitude and she accepts it, then she's agreeing (signing a contract)
but if you have the attitude of "oh baby let's be together, i'll be your man and pay for your shyt" and then extort/steal money from her and dump her, that's kinda s.hitty.
i'm just trying to get an understanding of your game. even if it contradicts another player's game... game is a paradox, ain't it.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
it's questionable who is getting taken advantage of when prostituting oneself.... the prostitute or the client?Originally posted by DJ_Dork
there's no such thing as "free." i'm not going to say anything besides being against this idea of taking advantage of a woman.
Look doggy, this is how it is...Most dudes on this fourm are coming from the angle of them trying to attact women, Im coming from the angle that girls are jocking me...Its really not worth fukking every girl that wants your d1ck, and for whatever reason girls want mine...You have to treat your d1ck like girls treat their puss...Originally posted by Aresx
i guess this is the result of "i am the prize" taken to it's fullest extent.
sorry to criticize you earlier. just don't think it's right to use people. unless they use you.
but i guess if she knows what's up, it's her doing it, not you. if you come out with the "hey, if you wanna get with this, you gotta pay the price" attitude and she accepts it, then she's agreeing (signing a contract)
but if you have the attitude of "oh baby let's be together, i'll be your man and pay for your shyt" and then extort/steal money from her and dump her, that's kinda s.hitty.
i'm just trying to get an understanding of your game. even if it contradicts another player's game... game is a paradox, ain't it.
^^This is knowdlege right here,people.Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Sex isnt sh1t, anyone can get sex...Sh1t, I can go fukk myself right now and cvm all over the floor...Hey, I got off right? Thats all it is, and Ill be dammed if I give up my power just to get a nut and be concidered (sp) a fool by some aging nympho on her way out...Fukk that, have some pride... [/B]
Don't waste your time Real. This new attitude of our poster is an awakening. Let the rest stay asleep. I think that if they are happy chasing women and getting laid instead of paid from em...then so be it.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
^^This is knowdlege right here,people.
He's on level 2..ya somewhere stuck in the parking area ...looking for change in the dash...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
whoa thats, uhm, interesting... or should i say highly innapropriate.Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Sex isnt sh1t, anyone can get sex...Sh1t, I can go fukk myself right now and cvm all over the floor...Hey, I got off right? Thats all it is, and Ill be dammed if I give up my power just to get a nut and be concidered (sp) a fool by some aging nympho on her way out...Fukk that, have some pride...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.