"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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List your Top 5 Goals for next financial year!

Black.Magic

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Good evening gentlemen of S.S.,

I write to you all to express my newfound desire to have goals. And to impress upon you all that one needs goals like one needs two eyes in one's head. Let us call these 'Financial year 2012-13 Goals'. Why not have new goals half-way through the year? That way you will not feel the pressure of all your friends giving up on theirs in February :rock:

Let us 'get the ball rolling', as it were. Mine are:

1. Spin an average of two plates (FwB's) from Sep12-Jun 01, 2013.
2. Put on 20lb muscle. Sod it. Make that 30lb.
3. Continue learning Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (my knees aren't calloused yet!) :box:
4. Get a 'Distinction' average at university (on track this semester :D)
5. Get shredded as FUARK, brah (clean bulking) i.e. 12% body fat.

I know not why I have chosen such a lofty tone for this thread.

Faithfully yours,

Black.Magic
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gro0ver

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Great idea Black.Magic.

1. Progress my career to the next level (promotion or another job!) and start enjoying my job more
2. Take the breakdancing to the next level (powermoves, complex/original footwork combos, battling)
3. Continue to become stronger, tougher, leaner and more agile (and shredded as FUARK, brah :D )
4. Spend more time with family, especially my grandparents
5. Make some more male friends (got plenty of females ones but some more bros would be great)

Oh yeah and be more like SPARTACUS haha :box: that dude never quits and he's gutsy as hell.
 
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