"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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List your Top 5 Goals for next financial year!

Black.Magic

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Good evening gentlemen of S.S.,

I write to you all to express my newfound desire to have goals. And to impress upon you all that one needs goals like one needs two eyes in one's head. Let us call these 'Financial year 2012-13 Goals'. Why not have new goals half-way through the year? That way you will not feel the pressure of all your friends giving up on theirs in February :rock:

Let us 'get the ball rolling', as it were. Mine are:

1. Spin an average of two plates (FwB's) from Sep12-Jun 01, 2013.
2. Put on 20lb muscle. Sod it. Make that 30lb.
3. Continue learning Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (my knees aren't calloused yet!) :box:
4. Get a 'Distinction' average at university (on track this semester :D)
5. Get shredded as FUARK, brah (clean bulking) i.e. 12% body fat.

I know not why I have chosen such a lofty tone for this thread.

Faithfully yours,

Black.Magic
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Gro0ver

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Great idea Black.Magic.

1. Progress my career to the next level (promotion or another job!) and start enjoying my job more
2. Take the breakdancing to the next level (powermoves, complex/original footwork combos, battling)
3. Continue to become stronger, tougher, leaner and more agile (and shredded as FUARK, brah :D )
4. Spend more time with family, especially my grandparents
5. Make some more male friends (got plenty of females ones but some more bros would be great)

Oh yeah and be more like SPARTACUS haha :box: that dude never quits and he's gutsy as hell.
 
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