"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TonyBaloney

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Hey guys,

Would be most interested to find out what careers some of you have.

I for one haved travelled on different routes in life; real estate, sales, building work, presently run a tree surgery business in an affluent part of london, but looking ahead at other possibilties.

What do you do?

Tony
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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European-DJ

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Studying at Med. School.
- Thinking about changing into business school, but i am not sure.
 

Purefilth

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shouldn't this be in the Anything Else section?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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firefighter.

spartanfan, I looked into H&S Engineering but never talked to anyone in the field. Have you found it rewarding?
 

Bible_Belt

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I am building a tomato empire to prepare for the collapse of civilization.

To the OP, by tree surgery do you mean what Americans would call "tree trimming?"
 

spartanfan

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
firefighter.

spartanfan, I looked into H&S Engineering but never talked to anyone in the field. Have you found it rewarding?

Hello Sir Psycho,

Yes it has been rewarding at times and others not so much due to the declining manufacturing industries I have worked in and the lack of jobs. Also most places want you to work for 40-50K a year starting out and that is complete garbage for the amount of hours you spend on job sites. But if you enjoy working for the people then by all means go for it :).

I went to OSH school with a HB 8 firefighter- blonde, tall and gorgeous and she did dig me but I never had the balls to ask her out until it was too late :(. The one downside with her she was a complete know it all brain :-/ but I should have struck while the iron was hot :rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AlexLefty

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European-DJ said:
Studying at Med. School.
- Thinking about changing into business school, but i am not sure.
why..
 
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