"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TonyBaloney

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Hey guys,

Would be most interested to find out what careers some of you have.

I for one haved travelled on different routes in life; real estate, sales, building work, presently run a tree surgery business in an affluent part of london, but looking ahead at other possibilties.

What do you do?

Tony
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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European-DJ

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Studying at Med. School.
- Thinking about changing into business school, but i am not sure.
 

Purefilth

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Electrician

shouldn't this be in the Anything Else section?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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firefighter.

spartanfan, I looked into H&S Engineering but never talked to anyone in the field. Have you found it rewarding?
 

Bible_Belt

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I am building a tomato empire to prepare for the collapse of civilization.

To the OP, by tree surgery do you mean what Americans would call "tree trimming?"
 

spartanfan

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
firefighter.

spartanfan, I looked into H&S Engineering but never talked to anyone in the field. Have you found it rewarding?

Hello Sir Psycho,

Yes it has been rewarding at times and others not so much due to the declining manufacturing industries I have worked in and the lack of jobs. Also most places want you to work for 40-50K a year starting out and that is complete garbage for the amount of hours you spend on job sites. But if you enjoy working for the people then by all means go for it :).

I went to OSH school with a HB 8 firefighter- blonde, tall and gorgeous and she did dig me but I never had the balls to ask her out until it was too late :(. The one downside with her she was a complete know it all brain :-/ but I should have struck while the iron was hot :rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AlexLefty

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European-DJ said:
Studying at Med. School.
- Thinking about changing into business school, but i am not sure.
why..
 
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