"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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List the common phrases you have heard from women you have been with...

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Heretolearn

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My best friend and I joke about this. It is like women get a manual for their behaviour eg.



In seduction phase:

- I don't usually do this - pg 2
- I feel like I have known you for so long but we only just met - pg 3
- I feel so safe/have so much fun when I am around you - pg 4
- you are so different/mature - pg 5


Relationship
- obviously sulking/angry - man ask what is wrong, response 'nothing.........'




etc. Have you guys found this also. Bamboozling me even more, this is over a wide variety of sample sizes from different continents. Just my friends though so lets increase the amount of experiences. Care to add/share your own experiences.

Wonder why the similarities???????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about.....................


" Wow! You're so huge! "

I get that all the time. :cool:


Cheers!
 
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"You are so wonderful."
"I feel like I've known you forever." - after two weeks of dating
"I love you. I've been wanting to say it for so long." - after three weeks of dating
"I feel like we need a break. I'm not ready for a relationship right now" - same girl, two months later
"I'm too tired (for sex)" - different girl, right before I dumped her.

Damn cluster B women. Now I just run away when I feel I've met another one. Seriously, I've fulfilled my save a ho quota... no more pain!
 
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