List Of Shaming Tactics That Make or Break You

[The Mad Ghost]

I think we need COD on this one,

What are some of the shaming tactics in mid-sentence text that are meant to make or break you. Lets think of some of the mor common online ones. Its usually ALWAYS online, rather than outdoors, you'll incounter higher bullsh1t ****sh1t SH1T-TEST text.

I'll start,

OK-This is usually said after you've finished your sentence, to give the impression shes busy or has other options at that time being, than rather give you a set of words. Which is all apart of the qualifying game.

KK-Same as above, but less prude.

GO AWAY-said in a shaming tactic format. Usually when they act like you're bothersome or annoying them, another make or break situation. Intended to make you feel like a loser, an italian-greaseball who harrasses women-type shaming tactic, with no life.

W.E-acronym for "What Ever". Again, used when they're acting like they do not need to write anything worthy of their presence ONLINE. Asif they're doing you a favour talking to you in the first place.

What are some of the other stuff you've encountered online?

 

[Razor Sharp]

Do you even understand what shaming means? It has to do with making you feel guilty about your own thoughts, feelings and desires. None of these are shaming tactics, and you are reading entirely too deep into what girls text you.

Here are examples of shaming tactics:

> Aren't you a little old to be dating teenagers?
> You should really settle down
> I can't believe you are dating multiple women
> Is sex all you are interested in?
> You are a womanizer
> Men are dogs
> You are bitter
> You are shallow
> You are afraid of a strong woman
> You men and your fragile egos
> You are so immature
> Do you talk to your mother like that?
> You view women as doormats
> You need therapy
> You are so cynical
> No women would ever marry a man like you

etc, etc

None of this really means sh*t to a guy who stands firmly on his own two feet. Only chumps cave to these cookie-cutter responses.

 

[imaginemypotential]

I'm interested in responses to these statements

 

[Warrior74]

I'm interested in responses to these statements

My new tactic is to agree and amplify.

Last night was my first night off in a month. My female friend (strickly a friend, not trying to go there with that one) wanted me to go out drinking with her, I on the other hand was enjoying some jack and coke and chilling.

her: come out tonight, lets get some wings and drinks
me: can't, playing call of duty, sniping those hoes!
her : Video games are for kids, you're a grown man
me: yup. 13 for life baby!
her: come have some grown up fun.
me: I have jack daniels, that's pretty grown up and fun to me.
her: you' never going to have a girlfriend acting like this.
me: what makes you think I want one? too much hassle.
her: you are impossible, you suck
me: No I'm the bastard son of Awesome and Fvck Ya! Don't hate.

She wanted a team of orbiters to go out and make her feel pretty, she already had 2 guys going, no way I was joining that sausagefest. My boy went with her and called me today. He said 2 more guys showed up and then she proceeded to whine about her relationship problems and wanted a "guys perspective". Nice way to spend an evening in a sports bar eh?

 

[Julian]

i use most of these on girls. flip the game on dem hoes

 

[Razor Sharp]

Warrior, you read my mind

Instead of getting defensive and falling for her conflict bait - you just agree with her, but in a way that she knows you are taking the piss. It's funny because the words you use are in agreement, but the way you say it just gets her panties in an even bigger knot (because she knows you won't let her have the frame)

Some possible responses to my previous post:

You should really settle down
You're so right, I'm gonna shop for an engagement ring right now. Thanks for showing me the light

You are shallow
Like a puddle baby

Men are dogs
Yup - I guess that makes women b*tches, huh?

You are afraid of a strong woman
Terrified, actually. That's why I hang out with you.

You view women as doormats
... you mean they're NOT?

No women would ever marry a man like you
Awesome - I must be doing something right!

You get the idea. The only way to fail these lil sh*t tests is to take them seriously. The proper way to frame this whole interaction is to pretend that these questions are being asked by an annoying kid sister, whose opinion you really couldn't give two sh*ts about.

Another approach is to completely flip their question on them

Are you only interested in sex?
Slow down there beb. I was just chilling and seeing where things went. Why you trying to rush things?

You see what they really mean by their question and project it right back onto them so they realize how ridiculous they are being.

In essence your whole demeanor in these situations can be summed up in one word

UNAPOLOGETIC

Shaming tactics don't work on someone who has no shame!

 

[todays_news]

Are you only interested in sex?
Slow down there beb. I was just chilling and seeing where things went. Why you trying to rush things?

Hahahaha, that is gold!

 

[Jblitz59]

you are creepy (2)
you must do a lot of sexual harrassment (1)

I've gotten these and they just brain rape you all day long.
it is the female version of a NEG hit
cuz you feel so much lower after them.

 

[Strelok]

you are creepy (2)
you must do a lot of sexual harrassment (1)

I've gotten these and they just brain rape you all day long.
it is the female version of a NEG hit
cuz you feel so much lower after them.

Tell them something about their big asses,that will brain rape them too and ruin the most precious thing they have "their ego".
No mercy for cheap shots.

About the topic here one that i hear often:

"You take advantage of people and drop them when they're not useful anymore?"
It's usually said from someone who failed his tasks or from some girl that got nexted because of mind games.

 

[nismo-4]

Razor Sharp and Warrior74 FTW!!!

God Damn, that's some hot sh*t. It's all about flipping the game. Remember that Mad Ghost. Don't buy into a woman's demands.

 

[Real Talk]

you are creepy (2)
you must do a lot of sexual harrassment (1)

I've gotten these and they just brain rape you all day long.
it is the female version of a NEG hit
cuz you feel so much lower after them.

I have never got that. Why would anyone use that as a test?

Maybe you really are creepy bro.

 

[Wilko]

This is why I come here. Advice like this makes SS worthwhile. I'd like to post something this useful.

 

[The Mad Ghost]

This is eligable for Don Juan Tips, Mods?

 

[PapiChulo]

That rapes your brain for sure, when they fire one after another like that, I do come on top most of the time, it shows your wits, simply because this stuff needs to be though of right at the spot = confidence, ego, knowledge and humor. The chicks get tired of that too, but for most its a good-and-ready routine....

 

[Wilko]

I just remembered a little interaction I had online about two weeks ago. I'm satisfied with the way it turned out, I truly don't give a cr@p, but given the topic, I'm interested in what you guys think.

Girl was an attractive enough redhead, chatted twice previously, already had coffee locked in on Wednesday evening. I started a chat with her over IM on Monday. Her profile fell into the "environment this, outdoors that, nature this, animals that category" and her username was some variation on "bird of paradise".

I jokingly suggest to her, "Makes you sound like an earth-worshipping nudist"

She retorts, "And that's a bad thing huh"

Unphased I reply, "In this weather it probably is" (it's freezing).

Our flame haired genius comes back with "Whatever".

At this point I've realised I have a humourless b!tch on my hands.

Since it's on topic, and I want to demonstrate I'm unaffected by her feet-stamping, I ask "When's the last time you got sprung without pants?" (I've found everyone has a good story about this).

Nothing, stone cold-silence. Wow, Wednesday is sure looking like fun hey fellas! I let it chill until the next day, NC, then I shoot her a message telling her that "based on our last sparkling conversation, tomorrow [Wednesday] isn't likely to be much fun, thanks but no thanks".

I didn't delete her straight-away, I was curious to see if she'd come back with anything. She did. Usual backwards rationalisation, she seemed to be claiming she was protecting herself by avoiding sexualised conversations, which is cr@p, we'd already had some light hearted, saucy banter and she liked it, mwahaha. Anyway my connection was up and down that night, she deleted me a few minutes later after I read that one, I was fine with it, and now it's on So Suave, mwahaha.

Cheers, guys.

 

[Razor Sharp]

"based on our last sparkling conversation, tomorrow [Wednesday] isn't likely to be much fun, thanks but no thanks".

Still giving her too much power. Getting that last stab of revenge is an emotional act - not unlike a woman who keys your car when she finds out you been cheatin.

You have to view your time and mental attention as precious resources - why even waste one precious iota of it on something you have no plan in being part of?

Also, why burn a bridge?

Women are emotional creatures of the seasons. In one day you get caribbean heat, and north pole trade winds.. multiple times. I didn't let that phase me at all - in fact I never had to say anything negative to them. The act of distancing myself spoke FOR me. Some never called again, but many would randomly do just that after months.

As for your approach, I thought you were a little harsh on the negs out the gate. Environmentalists don't like being called nude primitive pagans, lol. Good try though - I see the playful angle you were going for.

You wanna know how to open an environmental girl? Shoot her some youtube links to cool videos about renewable energy, ways to heal the world and all that greenpeace crap. Sign the words "Light Worker" under your name and let nature take its course.

Once she actually likes talking to you THEN you can drop a little neg. Tell her that her looks are common, but her aura is beautiful..lol

Most important of all, make sure you get some solid pictures first (head AND body shots). Some of these hippie chicks are some right sloppy tarts. I'm all for natural female beauty but the underarm dreadlocks aint doin it for me hun. *hurl*

 

[PapiChulo]

At this point I've realised I have a humourless b!tch on my hands.

Wilko, I meet more and more of these types: the hippies, the PETA, save the trees, the feminists. Have you actually had success with a such woman? When I encounter them it makes me want to run for the hills, it almost as if they are hopeless and only would be interested in a "wing-nut" like themselves.

 

[Trader]

I think we need COD on this one,

What are some of the shaming tactics in mid-sentence text that are meant to make or break you. Lets think of some of the mor common online ones. Its usually ALWAYS online, rather than outdoors, you'll incounter higher bullsh1t ****sh1t SH1T-TEST text.

You said it yourself - this almost always happens online. Girls don't dare say those things to your face, or if they do, their tone of voice is more teasing or submissive.

Another reason to stop talking to girls online and/or finding girls online.

Real life is the best.

 

[PapiChulo]

You said it yourself - this almost always happens online. Girls don't dare say those things to your face, or if they do, their tone of voice is more teasing or submissive.

Another reason to stop talking to girls online and/or finding girls online.

Real life is the best.

au contraire, the confident ones do, in the teasing manner like you said, yet all the wrong or boring cliche-responses will result in rejection right at the spot.

 

[Wilko]

G'day Razor, I'm flattered you think I have the b@lls to open a girl with an epic neg like that one! Nah, we'd built rapport over two or three previous chats. Wednesday was actually her "audition for my harem" as I'd put it to her, she had been eating up the C&F (it's a natural part of my game). As far as my cancellation goes, I'm inclined (of course I am!) to see it more as tying up loose ends than an act of revenge.

What you have to say about establishing value to a 'green' girl is interesting. I don't tend to tailor my approach for different types of girls, that is something I'll consider doing. I'm all for field testing new ideas...and getting those pics, with today's newspaper....and a ruler for scale in the same frame.

PapiChulo. Good to meet you. The answer is a qualified yes, I nailed an environmental "science" undergrad student at the start of the year. Think left-wing, middle-class, academic-elite as opposed to dreadlocks, bare feet and body odour, haha. Seriously though, that's actually the new face of the green movement but I digress. She said I reminded her of Tucker Max, actually lent me one of his books, I didn't know who he was at that point.

I did however, end up running for the hills! Oh, how she could talk, and talk.