"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Going back to the fundamentals. I've fclosed with plenty of women this year yet I've had a bit of difficulty even thinking about this.

3 Ways to get her to like you.

1. Fix your image: style, body type, charming personality
2. Get to know her by asking her a bunch of questions about herself.
3. Tell her you like her. Genuinely like her.


3 Signs that she genuinely likes you.

1. Heavy Eye Contact in person.
2. She asks what you are doing at least 2-3 times a day via text/phone call.
3. Heavy physical contact.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Few things i READ make me lol, but while reading this topic, i took it kind a serious, so when i read your comment SandHawk, it made me LOL . ^^...

But yeah, the 3 signs are pretty much the IOI's i am looking for.
 

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3 Ways to get her to like you.
1. Fix your image: style, body type, charming personality
Okay, here's the first bump in the road. What the heck does "charming personality" mean anyway? A lot of guys here will tell you that the worst you treat a woman, the more she will like you. I wish I could dismiss that as being ridiculous, but it does seem to be true for at least a certain type of woman.

2. Get to know her by asking her a bunch of questions about herself.
I've always heard you should avoid the interview type questions because it is boring.

3. Tell her you like her. Genuinely like her.
This is also a no no. Takes all the mystery out of it. She should be wondering if you really like you. Telling her means you are no longer a challenge. We tend to appreciate things more when we have to work for them.
 

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goldStandard said:
Going back to the fundamentals. I've fclosed with plenty of women this year yet I've had a bit of difficulty even thinking about this.

3 Ways to get her to like you.

1. Fix your image: style, body type, charming personality
2. Get to know her by asking her a bunch of questions about herself.
3. Tell her you like her. Genuinely like her.

2 and 3 sound pretty bad.

An attractive woman has all kinds of guys telling her that they "genuinely like her" all the time.

And asking a bunch of questions about her seems boring. I find that girls would much rather hear an interesting story from you rather than you asking them a bunch of questions.

I can't imagine a girl coming home after a date and telling her friends, "He asked me a bunch of questions and then told me that he genuinely likes me. I'm so wet right now."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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