"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Going back to the fundamentals. I've fclosed with plenty of women this year yet I've had a bit of difficulty even thinking about this.

3 Ways to get her to like you.

1. Fix your image: style, body type, charming personality
2. Get to know her by asking her a bunch of questions about herself.
3. Tell her you like her. Genuinely like her.


3 Signs that she genuinely likes you.

1. Heavy Eye Contact in person.
2. She asks what you are doing at least 2-3 times a day via text/phone call.
3. Heavy physical contact.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Few things i READ make me lol, but while reading this topic, i took it kind a serious, so when i read your comment SandHawk, it made me LOL . ^^...

But yeah, the 3 signs are pretty much the IOI's i am looking for.
 

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3 Ways to get her to like you.
1. Fix your image: style, body type, charming personality
Okay, here's the first bump in the road. What the heck does "charming personality" mean anyway? A lot of guys here will tell you that the worst you treat a woman, the more she will like you. I wish I could dismiss that as being ridiculous, but it does seem to be true for at least a certain type of woman.

2. Get to know her by asking her a bunch of questions about herself.
I've always heard you should avoid the interview type questions because it is boring.

3. Tell her you like her. Genuinely like her.
This is also a no no. Takes all the mystery out of it. She should be wondering if you really like you. Telling her means you are no longer a challenge. We tend to appreciate things more when we have to work for them.
 

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goldStandard said:
Going back to the fundamentals. I've fclosed with plenty of women this year yet I've had a bit of difficulty even thinking about this.

3 Ways to get her to like you.

1. Fix your image: style, body type, charming personality
2. Get to know her by asking her a bunch of questions about herself.
3. Tell her you like her. Genuinely like her.

2 and 3 sound pretty bad.

An attractive woman has all kinds of guys telling her that they "genuinely like her" all the time.

And asking a bunch of questions about her seems boring. I find that girls would much rather hear an interesting story from you rather than you asking them a bunch of questions.

I can't imagine a girl coming home after a date and telling her friends, "He asked me a bunch of questions and then told me that he genuinely likes me. I'm so wet right now."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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