"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going back to the fundamentals. I've fclosed with plenty of women this year yet I've had a bit of difficulty even thinking about this.

3 Ways to get her to like you.

1. Fix your image: style, body type, charming personality
2. Get to know her by asking her a bunch of questions about herself.
3. Tell her you like her. Genuinely like her.


3 Signs that she genuinely likes you.

1. Heavy Eye Contact in person.
2. She asks what you are doing at least 2-3 times a day via text/phone call.
3. Heavy physical contact.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Few things i READ make me lol, but while reading this topic, i took it kind a serious, so when i read your comment SandHawk, it made me LOL . ^^...

But yeah, the 3 signs are pretty much the IOI's i am looking for.
 

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3 Ways to get her to like you.
1. Fix your image: style, body type, charming personality
Okay, here's the first bump in the road. What the heck does "charming personality" mean anyway? A lot of guys here will tell you that the worst you treat a woman, the more she will like you. I wish I could dismiss that as being ridiculous, but it does seem to be true for at least a certain type of woman.

2. Get to know her by asking her a bunch of questions about herself.
I've always heard you should avoid the interview type questions because it is boring.

3. Tell her you like her. Genuinely like her.
This is also a no no. Takes all the mystery out of it. She should be wondering if you really like you. Telling her means you are no longer a challenge. We tend to appreciate things more when we have to work for them.
 

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goldStandard said:
Going back to the fundamentals. I've fclosed with plenty of women this year yet I've had a bit of difficulty even thinking about this.

3 Ways to get her to like you.

1. Fix your image: style, body type, charming personality
2. Get to know her by asking her a bunch of questions about herself.
3. Tell her you like her. Genuinely like her.

2 and 3 sound pretty bad.

An attractive woman has all kinds of guys telling her that they "genuinely like her" all the time.

And asking a bunch of questions about her seems boring. I find that girls would much rather hear an interesting story from you rather than you asking them a bunch of questions.

I can't imagine a girl coming home after a date and telling her friends, "He asked me a bunch of questions and then told me that he genuinely likes me. I'm so wet right now."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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