Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Lip Problems

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I have really bad lip problems beyond just the basic chapped, chaffed, and dry that responds to balm. I have tried very balm known to man and it doesn't work. They stay dry and irritated and nothing helps them. I've even been to an ENT and dermatologist and they don't know. Dentist doesn't know either. Are there any supplements, herbs, or dietary changes I could try that might improve this? Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If your ENT and Dermatologists both don't know, I doubt that anyone here would have any clue. After all, we're not the ones who went to college for at least 8 years to learn about skin. They did. :p
 
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Yeah bro sorry, The Bishop is right. If you've been to a dermatoligst and they dont' know then I doubt anyone here will have the answer! The only thing I can suggest is to see another dermatoligist for a second opinion, not all have the same amount of knowledge...
 

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Do you have a cold or any sickness? That might be the reason why... Maybe the balms aren't the ones for you... Try Vasaline or some special products are drug stores that may work for you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks for the feedback on this. I don't have any cold or sickness and I rarely ever get sick anyway. I've tried vaseline and a number of different brands of balm. I even tried a steroidal ointment that the dermatologist gave me but it didn't help at all.
 

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Wait a bit longer and see what happens... Try using vasaline a couple of times for a week and then drink alot of water. There might be no vitamins going to your lips, so if you are eating random meals at random times, i recommend you eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
 

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sun damage

The only thing that i can think of is that you might have burnt lips <---- i get really dry lips from being out in the sun too much. Could be that if not, i have no clue:rolleyes:
 

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Re: sun damage

Originally posted by willo
The only thing that i can think of is that you might have burnt lips <---- i get really dry lips from being out in the sun too much. Could be that if not, i have no clue:rolleyes:
Serious? Never heard of that.. So what do you do do protect your lips then? Just chap them?
 

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Burnt lips

Make sure your lip balm has some sort of SPF rating or use zinc creams <--- there are clear ones available or stay out of the sun.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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