I have really bad lip problems beyond just the basic chapped, chaffed, and dry that responds to balm. I have tried very balm known to man and it doesn't work. They stay dry and irritated and nothing helps them. I've even been to an ENT and dermatologist and they don't know. Dentist doesn't know either. Are there any supplements, herbs, or dietary changes I could try that might improve this? Thanks.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Lip Problems
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diablo
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If your ENT and Dermatologists both don't know, I doubt that anyone here would have any clue. After all, we're not the ones who went to college for at least 8 years to learn about skin. They did. 
Mr.Hash wid da Stash
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Yeah bro sorry, The Bishop is right. If you've been to a dermatoligst and they dont' know then I doubt anyone here will have the answer! The only thing I can suggest is to see another dermatoligist for a second opinion, not all have the same amount of knowledge...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thanks for the feedback on this. I don't have any cold or sickness and I rarely ever get sick anyway. I've tried vaseline and a number of different brands of balm. I even tried a steroidal ointment that the dermatologist gave me but it didn't help at all.
Wait a bit longer and see what happens... Try using vasaline a couple of times for a week and then drink alot of water. There might be no vitamins going to your lips, so if you are eating random meals at random times, i recommend you eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
willo
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sun damage
The only thing that i can think of is that you might have burnt lips <---- i get really dry lips from being out in the sun too much. Could be that if not, i have no clue
The only thing that i can think of is that you might have burnt lips <---- i get really dry lips from being out in the sun too much. Could be that if not, i have no clue
Re: sun damage
Serious? Never heard of that.. So what do you do do protect your lips then? Just chap them?Originally posted by willo
The only thing that i can think of is that you might have burnt lips <---- i get really dry lips from being out in the sun too much. Could be that if not, i have no clue
willo
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Burnt lips
Make sure your lip balm has some sort of SPF rating or use zinc creams <--- there are clear ones available or stay out of the sun.
Make sure your lip balm has some sort of SPF rating or use zinc creams <--- there are clear ones available or stay out of the sun.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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try drinking more water