That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So basically, letting up a bit on attention on a woman makes her more interested in sexing her man up?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
during the tournament, my mate and I would go to a big popular bar in town, big screens, great atmosphere for when the England games were on.MatureDJ said:
There was a somewhat similar dynamic going on when I went to Super Bowl party hosted by a work colleague and his wife. His wife's friends were definitely not anything I really cared to do (although I guess if push came to shove, I would not have kicked her out of bed), and they were always subtly trying to get the men's attention during commercials.betheman said: