Limiting money spending on early dating stages?

[spiegel549]

So you took this broad out finally after getting her number. You want to impress her and have a great first date. So you take her for some dinner spend some money, maybe go to the movies spend some money, maybe walk in the park and get some ice cream spend more money. Over all you end up having a great first date.

Now you are onto your second date, and you go for more food spend your money, a few more fun things that cost more of your money, and you start to think...

Is there a money limit in the early stages of dating that you should give yourself?

Really unless you are feeling really confident that your P is going in her V do you really want to spend $100 on a date that your going to get a kiss on the cheek for, when you could of bought a $3 ice cream cone and walked around for free and had the same end result...

I feel a lot of men including myself think if they do some free simple date that it won't be as good as an impression as a nice dinner and some other money costing activities...

What do you all think?

 

[Dominance]

Isn't this one of the core things we should know NOT to do. I mean it is obvious to me but I guess it isn't to alot of people I know, including people here.

Do not take them out to dinner or the movies at the start. You only feel like you have to because you have picked up bull**** programming telling you this is the case. It is not at all!

I very rarely spend any money on girls, I don't need to and it doesn't effect anything. Actually it's probably better because they don't think they can use you for money. Occasionally if i've been with a girl for a while I will goto the movies or to tea, as it is different then.

A girl i'm seeing now always pays for her own stuff and it hasn't caused any issues between us, she knows I won't be paying for her stuff.

 

[ARrocket]

Just go grab a few drinks. Even if you buy her a couple, you'll spend what, $20 on her max? Plus there's some alcohol, it's a more sensual setting, so you're more likely to amp up the physicality.

 

[marmel75]

drinks are always a great option...

 

[Dominance]

Oh yeah, do stuff like go for a drive somewhere cool, play pool, go for a walk, go for a coffee. None of it will cost much money.

 

[J Roc]

a slice of pizza costs $2.50. Who the hell is taking women on a $100 first date. smh

 

[vatoloco]

Clicky

 

[Love's Orphan]

I got a friend who spent 300 bucks on a chick on one date, and no sex. Funnily, he spends less (120) on an escort chick whenever he feels like.

 

[Godless]

You can say. i m a student. i dont heve any money. My father gave my money so i cant spend money for this. maybe it works

 

[muscleman]

Drinks if you can, it's the perfect combination - cheap, limited time investment (1 drink, 2 drinks, etc), intimate atmosphere (low lighting, couches, music), independent of season, almost everyone likes it, etc. I take about this and other inexpensive options in Action Dates.