Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Whoa now chief, chill.Originally posted by manuva
No. It isn't fine. Maybe I didn't put enough muscle names in my post.
Proper technique includes chest out AND SHOULDERS HELD FIRMLY BACK.
Deadlifting to PROPER TECHNIQUE (see above sentence) will work lats... I mean latissimus dorsi.
There, is that a fancy enough word to be taken seriously?
WHICH is why I said that lats are attached to the shoulders and the ribs, and have no large effect on the extending or erecting of the backit IS the lats that are the PRIMARY muscles that extend the back
Proper technique doesn't include holding the shoulder blades together. You get a longer range of motion this way.Originally posted by manuva
No. It isn't fine. Maybe I didn't put enough muscle names in my post.
Proper technique includes chest out AND SHOULDERS HELD FIRMLY BACK.
Deadlifting to PROPER TECHNIQUE (see above sentence) will work lats... I mean latissimus dorsi.
There, is that a fancy enough word to be taken seriously?
I never denied this.Originally posted by Heizen
Keeping your back arched IS correct
This alone is no measure of expertise. I see guys in power lifting gyms lifting huge weight with poor and ever dangerous technique.it is the way I lift and the way I was taught by people who lift a LOT more weight then me and know their ****.
I am familiar with the way powerlifters lift. I train two PL's, one of whom DL's 260kg (580lbs) for 8 reps. Not bad for a 44 yr old guy. Both of them work to keep their shoulders back during the lift to help stick their chest out. Both have massive lats.if you want to reduce the ROM while keeping yourself efficient ala PL'ers, you let your shoulders fall forward a little bit.
You said its ok to roll them forward. It's not. It's poor technique, will develop poor posture, and won't activate many of the muscles in your back that become activated. For the record those include the supraspinatus, infraspinatus, rhomboid major and minor, latissimus dorsi, and to a lesser extent teres major & minor and trapezius activation.I didn't say relax your shoulders.
Thats quite childish. And, aside from the sarcasm, I'm not sure what point you're trying to convey.I'd like to point out, you didn't say jack except agree with sweet cheeks. Hence you DIDN'T say any muscles, and you completetly misread my post so you could start a stupid pissing contest about deadlifting. Oh wait, you said lats. My bad! You said one muscle then.
Like I said, posting here bores me. I have a life. I get paid a lot of money to tell people this stuff for real, so I seldom bother spending any great amount of time posting here for free. I agreed with the advice he gave, even if some of the content wasn't entirely accurate. I have neither the time nor inclination to correct every single mistake people write in this forum, otherwise I'd be here all day every day. There is a lot of poor advice and misinformation in this thread alone (including inaccuracies of your own), let alone the dozens of others.Actually I was referring to you as one of the people agreeing with him simply because he said some muscle names and sounded like he knew his stuff. So you weren't too far off buddy, but try again
That makes no sense whatsoever. First of all, that way of deadlifting sounds better for bodybuilding, but for powerlifting, why would you want to do something that makes it HARDER to lift more weight? That's like saying that all powerlifters should do olympic style ass-to-grass squats. Different purposes, different sports. I'd even be concerned about the safety of your way of doing things.Originally posted by manuva
No. It isn't fine. Maybe I didn't put enough muscle names in my post.
Proper technique includes chest out AND SHOULDERS HELD FIRMLY BACK.
Deadlifting to PROPER TECHNIQUE (see above sentence) will work lats... I mean latissimus dorsi.
There, is that a fancy enough word to be taken seriously?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dont the spinal erectors extend the back? Hence the name erectors. To erect? To straighten?Originally posted by MetalFortress
Your lats pull your arms into your body - not extend your lower back.
deadlifts work the whole body, ESPECIALLY the back.Originally posted by Lifeforce
Deadlifts are only good to give size to the erectors IMO.
Damn need to get back to the studies.
you are right and he is wrong, since when is lettign the shoulders roll forward a good form for deadlifts?Originally posted by manuva
No. It isn't fine. Maybe I didn't put enough muscle names in my post.
Proper technique includes chest out AND SHOULDERS HELD FIRMLY BACK.
Deadlifting to PROPER TECHNIQUE (see above sentence) will work lats... I mean latissimus dorsi.
There, is that a fancy enough word to be taken seriously?
how would a writer be prevented from giving bad a advice in some text compared to a trainer, your own logic makes the use of references irrelevantOriginally posted by MetalFortress
You can't just say "I do this for a living" because a LOT of trainers make a living off of giving people bad advice. You post some references/writers of your own,
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rawblood, do you want to prove to us that you actually lift first?? Pavel obviously IS a trainer, who ALSO writes books. He's far bigger than just a run of the mill gym trainer, and if you would go to the website and read, you would notice that. Think about it.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
how would a writer be prevented from giving bad a advice in some text compared to a trainer, your own logic makes the use of references irrelevant
Well yeah, that's what I was getting at. I said the lats are what doesn't extend the back.Originally posted by brucevangeorge
Dont the spinal erectors extend the back? Hence the name erectors. To erect? To straighten?
i dont lift or know anyone that lifts on or offlineOriginally posted by MetalFortress
Rawblood, do you want to prove to us that you actually lift first?? Pavel obviously IS a trainer, who ALSO writes books. He's far bigger than just a run of the mill gym trainer, and if you would go to the website and read, you would notice that. Think about it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
please take to pm's ill be glad to discussOriginally posted by MetalFortress
And you can prove a reference true or false? No. You can't even provide references.
It's used when to give you some extra length of your arms so you can begin the lift at a higher point. Try yourself and see. Roll the shoulders forward a little and see where the arms end up.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
you are right and he is wrong, since when is lettign the shoulders roll forward a good form for deadlifts?
it isn't
it is improper form, pins and a power rack are used to "begin the lift at a higher point"Originally posted by Lifeforce
It's used when to give you some extra length of your arms so you can begin the lift at a higher point. Try yourself and see. Roll the shoulders forward a little and see where the arms end up.
In my case that is not true, I've noticed growth in traps and erectors, very little lat improvement before I started being very serious about the lat training. Allthough it's such a heavy weight so you are correct it works the entire body in some way.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
deadlifts work the whole body, ESPECIALLY the back.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.