"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lil boy box and big boy box

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Well I just went out and I feel like there's a box for the lil boys and a box for the big boys.

do we all have to fake it till we make it?

WTFF
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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and is the only way to make it to go for a subpar girlfriend???

She mightn't even be subpar to other women. But I think that might be the key. The subpar girlfriend.
 

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Yeah, it is true. But you have to make it, not just fake it. Subpar girlfriends....., well you could cheat and go with a nice older woman, single mothers, low self-esteem, crazy ones, married women wanting to cheat. No fat chicks! They are out there....and not that hard to get with. The thing is that they are subpar.... so you get what you pay for. I am only interested in quality ones for a relationship, and the rest is just sex, hopefully steady sex. Also there are more boxes than you describe....it's more like an HB scale for guys.
 

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And as the year goes on the ugly girls are feeling better and better and better.

I saw this HB who was flirting with me last night. She gt approached by 3 guys, then I apprached her, and she barelly gave me a chance. The AFC's here are ruining my chances.

So my tactic for tonight is to not ask any serious questions at all.

I will be going out in interview mode asking is people prefer yellow to pink elephants or horses to goats.

I'm tired of the old where you from, who you here with, how you gettin home? All that same old boring crap. It doesn't get u no where.
 

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In places where a lot of people approach, it is about the attitude. Some women are looking for a guy who is just gonna come up and grab their hand, then take them away, save them from the creepy dudes. Gotta stand out and use the right thing at the right time on the RIGHT woman. When people talk about that it is the numbers game.... I agree only partially, because this thing is inefficient if you are all over the place. Proper target identification is just as important, and it is rather here where the numbers do amplify the game. Be observant, learn to read people, pick the right ones and go for it. It takes two tango.
Dont forget to Have Fun. Happy Hunting.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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