Like Wars

[taiyuu_otoko]

I got a lot of likes when I was angry and at the stage of trying to sort through cognitive dissonance.

Three of the top posters are banned. I suppose that means most guys here are angry, and resonate with angry posts. When I was younger I was pissed a lot as well. I suppose that's natural and healthy, so long as you figure out how to channel that angry energy. Anger is, after all, a necessary motivation tool to push through whatever angers us. However, most guys get angry at girls, instead of their skills with girls.

 

[resilient]

I suppose that's natural and healthy, so long as you figure out how to channel that angry energy. Anger is, after all, a necessary motivation tool to push through whatever angers us.

Agree.

However, most guys get angry at girls, instead of their skills with girls.

There's the rub.

Most guys are a slave to the ego and lack the introspection to ask themselves: "how did I fvck this up? what AFC moves did I make? how could I have handled the STR/LTR or approach better?"

I've found the best success I've experienced in self-improvement immediately follows a breakup. I've written about that in previous posts. I used my latest breakup to help me to channel all that anger, hurt, and rejection into the gym and bulk nearly 30 pounds. I feel worlds better, yet still have some inner game issues that still need care.

Essentially, if one takes a hard look at himself and does a deep dive to figure out how to improve, down the road success should theoretically improve. *edit* This needs field testing. I can at least report that I've had more IOIs this summer from girls that were previously not interested when I was 136 lbs. Since the gain, I've been approached more or kino'd at social gatherings.

For the record, I don't think men should take 100% of the blame for the break up because it takes two to split. However, often enough, the man does enough to drive her interest level down which costs him the chance at a longer LTR or plate status with her.

 

[zekko]

- Trained the marines
- Could take on 5 people at once in a fight and win
- Was a high school arm wrestling champion
- Was a semi professional baseballer
- had an iq of 160
- Earned 1000 dollars a day
- had patented some code that converts the internet into a 3D experience
- had made some software that could make him a billionaire in the coming years (probably the above)
- had a photographic memeory
- achieved the highest sat scores in maths at highschool
- had a 21 year old girlfriend at the age of 47

What else am I missing? There must be more

Had the most likes on SoSuave

Three of the top posters are banned. I suppose that means most guys here are angry, and resonate with angry posts.

As Deesade noted, there are a lot of guys who come through here who are angry and bitter over their failed experiences with women. If you can write angry and bitter posts that resonate with those guys, I agree, you're going to get a lot of likes.