"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Like "some" men, there are "some" special women out there: how did you find out?

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How did you understand that she is a healthy woman, among all the others?



If it is true that:

You can't take what she says literally, which means you have to think about whether "I'm really good with you" actually translates to "I can't find anything better currently", which, every time you do that, makes you insecure.
So if you can't believe what she says, but watch what she does.
If what she says, you don't believe, but you make her understand that you understood.
If you can't rely on her family "background" and her "solid" friendships.
If you can't rely on her "low cbody count past".

How can you understand that this woman is really different from the others?

I don't make all men of a group. I do indeed recognize that there are truly great and genuine men among us. But they are very few. Let's say 10% of those I've met.

The same will be for women.

So what were for you, and what should be, the fundamental factors or things that made you understand that after so many relationships, she was really really different from the others?





ps: men and women have their triggers, so both men and women will be horny or will fall into temptation, but I am more than sure, that just as we men know how to be grateful for what we have, women, some of them, will also know how to do it.

So, although all will respond emotionally to triggers, some will be able to contain themselves.

also, by this, I mean that you could stop being thinking to tactics, on that some of her behaviour made you think about how you should behave in respose.
Just because you you found out that this woman didn't require you to question yourself
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm looking forward to seeing you post about approaches or some other field reports instead of spamming the forum.
 

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@jhonny9546 "How did you understand that she is a healthy woman, among all the others?"

Put my Watergate cap on, burgled her gynecologist's office, read her files
 
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