"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Like, now hate?

StewieZ

New Member
Joined
Aug 2, 2012
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
Advice needed. Can a woman go from liking you to hating you without even knowing you? Let me explain. I thought I might be getting some buy signals from a woman at the gym. Eye contact, subtle body language, etc. But idiot me wasn't sure and apparently dragged my heels too long. Now all the flirty gestures are gone and have been replaced with indifference and outright avoidance. Almost like she now actually dislikes me cuz I DIDN'T make a move?

Can women get angry at guys for not hitting on them? Happen to any of you guys?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Zerro

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2011
Messages
570
Reaction score
24
StewieZ said:
Can women get angry at guys for not hitting on them? Happen to any of you guys?
Yep, women react to rejection much worse than men, even if it's only perceived in their own mind. The types that do this nonsense tend to be the ones who are too subtle for their own good and it never occurs to them to be more overt with their interest.
 

Samwild

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 25, 2012
Messages
38
Reaction score
0
Not to mention and to piggy back on Zerro, these types of women are usually wrapped up in some sort of ideology that would have been parasitic to your lifestyle. Course, you will never know since approaching her now would be a waste of your time and hers. What is time saving is the fact that you didn't have to invest much time to find out how much of a lousy person she could very well be. An I wouldn't discredit yourself too much in this situation. You recognized subtle signals put out by the succubus sex called women. Use this knowledge for the next target and keep your head on a swivel. Practice makes perfect, but, ALWAYS defend your manhood or you will end up like this poor sap :kick: and be back here writing an FR about getting dumped or worse.
 
Top