"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Like, now hate?

StewieZ

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Advice needed. Can a woman go from liking you to hating you without even knowing you? Let me explain. I thought I might be getting some buy signals from a woman at the gym. Eye contact, subtle body language, etc. But idiot me wasn't sure and apparently dragged my heels too long. Now all the flirty gestures are gone and have been replaced with indifference and outright avoidance. Almost like she now actually dislikes me cuz I DIDN'T make a move?

Can women get angry at guys for not hitting on them? Happen to any of you guys?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zerro

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StewieZ said:
Can women get angry at guys for not hitting on them? Happen to any of you guys?
Yep, women react to rejection much worse than men, even if it's only perceived in their own mind. The types that do this nonsense tend to be the ones who are too subtle for their own good and it never occurs to them to be more overt with their interest.
 

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Not to mention and to piggy back on Zerro, these types of women are usually wrapped up in some sort of ideology that would have been parasitic to your lifestyle. Course, you will never know since approaching her now would be a waste of your time and hers. What is time saving is the fact that you didn't have to invest much time to find out how much of a lousy person she could very well be. An I wouldn't discredit yourself too much in this situation. You recognized subtle signals put out by the succubus sex called women. Use this knowledge for the next target and keep your head on a swivel. Practice makes perfect, but, ALWAYS defend your manhood or you will end up like this poor sap :kick: and be back here writing an FR about getting dumped or worse.
 
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