"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lifting question

WrEcKLeSS2000

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Hello, I bench during the week 3 times a week every other day and the other 2 days i work other parts of my body. I was just wondering if its a normal thing to for instance say u bench alot after the weekend is over and u keep doing more sets and then 2 days later i could do alot my first set but other sets i couldn't lift as much as i could before... is this a normal thing like my muscles are soar or something???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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darkhorse

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Someone has to field this pop fly.....

You're not doing them often enough, so your muscles are atrophying between workouts. Move the chest workout up to every day. If you find the same thing happening, move it up to once every 6 hours.

I'm joking.

Actually, you're doing them too often and not giving your muscles enough rest. You may want to do more research into lifting to get better results. The Bulking Guide sticky would be a good start.
 

Drug_L0rd

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chest three times a week, HAHAHAHA, you my friend...are overtraining.

you won't have any gains that way.

even powerlifters don't workout one body part that many times per week.

put it this way. lets say you have a VERY VERY VERY and i do mean VERY strict diet. it is the ideal diet that you want to follow to reach your goals (bulking up or cutting weight) only THEN maybe you can do each MAJOR muscle two times per week.

other than that once a week is enough.


here's an idea of a split you can adopt:

Mon: Chest and Tri

Wed: Back and Bi

Fri: Legs and shoulders
 
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