"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lifting less more quickly

DonutMan

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So, I used to try to lift as much as I could and I would rest like 2-3 minutes in between sets. I have not seen very good results doing this, so I decided to try something new. Now I am doing 4 sets of each lift I would normally do, but only waiting like 30 seconds before the next set. I definitely am feeling more of a burn and my muscles are still sore from doing this, but I am not able to lift as much as I normally would. Does anyone know how this will affect me. Will I build muscle faster, or get stronger faster? I thought I read somewhere that this was good for strength gaining.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonutMan said:
So, I used to try to lift as much as I could and I would rest like 2-3 minutes in between sets. I have not seen very good results doing this
Eat more.
 

bornyesterday

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I'm not an expert on this, but I think you feel the burn more because you arent used to it, the sets are new for your mussels. Also the sum total of energy you put into it is more as well. But generally you dont gain mass and strength as well as when you lift heavier with fewer reps.

Why you are not gaining with your previous exercise is probably due to not eating enough, especially protein. 1g protein for every pound of bodyweight is a good start. Only count the protein from meat, fish, eggs and whey.
 

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The "burn" is just lactic acid...

Depends what your goals are... if its conditioning/cardio training then do what your doing; shorten the rest time and increase the sets.

If it's strength you're after, stretch out the time between sets to make sure you hit your lifts for that week.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WalkingStick

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I'm training under a coach who teaches something like this (he's also a professional strength coach). They're called supersets

We'll do one exercise (say squats, bench, etc) and then go STRAIGHT to another (something that works a different and usually smaller group of muscles).

We'll then go back to the first exercise (add 30 secs of rest if needed) and repeat. This way you can keep your body working hard while giving your muscles a little more rest.

I don't recommend what you're doing now, but I've never really heard anything said about it either way.
 
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