Upstanding Young Man
Don Juan
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I'm not big on lifting. Pretty much the most I can get up 3 times is 155lbs. But I have incline slots on me weight bench, what's the benifit of using an incline?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I don't follow you here... He's talking about doing bench presses on an incline. The difference is that instead of laying horizontally you are laying at an angle with your head higher than your waist. In both exercises you push the bar up vertically. http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/PectoralClavicular/BBInclineBenchPress.htmlOriginally posted by Slickster
When you lift something straight up weighing 100 lbs you are lifting 100 lbs. If you lift the same weight on an incline you are lifting less. Its the same idea as a ramp or inclined plane. Force required to lift 100 lbs goes up and down depending on how steep of an incline you are lifting on. So .....
If the incline exerise you are doing works different muscles or different parts of muscles then that is a benefit to you. eg. Incline benchpress. However if your weight machine/bench has you doing some crazy incline exercise that is working the same muscles as you would if you did the same exercise vertical then there really isn't a benefit at all.
Is he talking about incline bench press? If so I don't see anything saying that. He just says lifting on his weight bench. For all we know he could be doing leg presses which is a similar movement to a squat except you are usually pressing the weight on an incline. You are correct incline bench press works your muscles differently than lying flat. You'll also notice I did acknowledge that as a benefit.I don't follow you here... He's talking about doing bench presses on an incline. ..
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.