Life's a B1tch

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Develop confidence in yourself and women and work will follow.

But that's the rub: you have to gain your salt by approaching women and getting shot down.

There's no easy way to become as thick-skinned as me. You have to live it, young buck.

But what's your other option? Play video games and use dating apps? Lol

Go ahead. You're only delaying the inevitable. And I mean the inevitable realization that all women are the same.

Get out of your box, take some heart ache. Life is boring otherwise.

Or it will get boring. Trust me

Only women play it safe. It's in your nature to take risks!

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Once you get older, you'll learn that all women are retarded in a way; retarded to our way of thinking. Which is the logical way of thinking.

Giving women the vote was the downfall of the West and women will be the downfall of you. Whether you like it or not. Whether you avoid them or not. They will wreck you.

The only way to avoid heartbreak is to become sour like me and be wary of women, or get as good as game as I am and do your best to control women. Again, in order to understand women, you have to be fvcked over by them. You live and you learn, young buck

If you want to control women, look up dread game and push/pull. They coincide with confidence, but trust me

And as this thread shows, you can never control a modern woman.

But it's worth it to try. Again, life gets boring if you don't try.

May the Lord bless your life better than he did mine.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Once you get older, you'll learn that all women are retarded in a way; retarded to our way of thinking. Which is the logical way of thinking.

Giving women the vote was the downfall of the West and women will be the downfall of you. Whether you like it or not. Whether you avoid them or not. They will wreck you.

The only way to avoid it is to become sour like me and avoid women, or get as good as game as I am and do your best to control women.

And as this thread shows, you can never control a modern woman.

But it's worth it to try. Again, life gets boring if you don't try.

May the Lord bless your life better than he did mine.

I also chose a bad b1tch. There are better ones out there. Remember that too.

I'm older. I knowingly made my bed. Now I'm lying in it

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

There's no poster on this forum that can give me advice I haven't already read. And those guys said it better than you can

I like the attacks. Keep them coming.

Negativity makes me think; positivity is a woman's pursuit

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Only @Gamisch and one other guy have great posts in this thread.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

You are a divorced father, are you not? Judging from what you said about your ex, she is not exactly a "quality woman".

The problem is that there isn't necessarily a bright line test separating "high quality" women from "low quality" ones. It's not like the difference between an ugly woman and an attractive woman, which is obvious to see. A seemingly "high quality" woman is capable of "low quality" acts under the right circumstances, just like fresh fruit came become spoiled. In other words, getting yourself a "high quality" woman is hardly a guarantee of anything.

Golden. This guy gets it and should be respected

I really need to read what I missed the past week

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

I'm trying to be empathetic, especially given the erratic posts and bravado persona. I’m truly sorry for your loss after such a brief time. I can only imagine how challenging it must be, and the strain from unsuccessful pregnancies can certainly affect a relationship.

To navigate this difficult time, it's important to find a balance between your emotions and rational thinking. I suggest to take a step back, both physically and emotionally from all of this stress in order to gain a clearer and more neutral perspective on the situation. You need to question her motivations and outcomes while remaining open to new ideas. This way you will not only take her behaviour at face value but also avoid doing something irrational that will cause more harm than good; stay away from the red pill group bias this moment and think about your long term goals and how to action them. The longer you resist reacting, the more time you have to reflect in all of this. Self-assess everything with time.

I can tell you from experience that she may want to fight through tooth and nail to keep you around and keep the relationship going. She may create drama, involve your family, do nice things for you, or rationalize how insignificant her actions were. All I can say is that you have all the leverage in the relationship to end it if you do not want to continue this journey with her. Most people don’t get this chance.

Good luck.

Great post

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

A woman who considers her man her best option and who respects her man, will not respond to text with sexual things. You're not her best option, otherwise she would have policed herself to not do something to lose you.

You say you're a veteran implying you have experience (an elephant doesn't say how big he is, he jist walks), but you got with a woman cause "you're old and wants kids" women are the ones who say that $hit, men plan ahead and don't need anything from women.

You mentioned you're "short and bald" implying you probably have a hard time getting an woman, therefore are afraid of losing her, if me only reading this, it reeks of insecurity and desperation, imagine what that woman thinks about you, a woman who you spend a lot of time with and have a sixth sense for desperate men.

You're a veteran in years, but you're still a noob in the dating game. You gotta a lot work to do my friend.

Good post

I stopped believing in women a long time ago. Nothing they do surprises me anymore.

For the longest time, even after swallowing the red pill, women's true nature would bother me..

It hasn't bothered me in years, bud. Took me 15 years or so, but I know I truly don't care

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Oke in that case men should also lower their expectations . The outcome, or I'd say ,the final "product" from your description will be "the azzhole". You know, the type of man who doesn't care if she does whatever because he never trusted her to begin with.

I can tell you that then all of a sudden women will do ANYTHING to get some emotions put of you.

There's no excuse for such behavior when you have a covenant with a woman. I get what you're tryung to do, but simultaneously, despite all your good efforts your advice might be more harmful than you want. We're not talking Texting but Sexting my friend. That's a few levels beyond normal contact as the other dude basically already had her mind....

Regain focus? I agree with that part tho.

Good post

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Every man that lacks self love and self respect will eventually find himself I'm this exact situation.

Because women are like that wild animal you try to tame: no amount of study will predict how she'll react tomorrow. And eventually the wild animal will hurt you. When it does, you only got yourself to blame.

Beyond self respect is an entire world of goodness waiting for ya. You just gotta get through the bitter pill called loneliness. Once you get through that, much better thing waiting for you. But first you gotta tell life how to treat you. You say that it's okay to be disrespectful towards you. You'll reap what you sow.


Dude loves her more than he loves himself.

Imagine him living om her house...he would've been kicked out like 5 times already for simply forgetting to close of the toothpaste or not closing the toilet seat.

This **** lets a cheating woman take from his resources while thinking he gets "leverage " over her

I used to have your mentality. I carried it for most of my life.

I still carry it, though the anger faded and left only reality

Maybe you will want kids one day. Maybe you wont

Then again, maybe you're disgruntled because a woman already fvcked you over...

The best posters in sosuave history were disgruntled divorcees lol

Sh1t, disgruntled divorcees created the red pill and the manosphere. I watched it happen as a teenager, so how could I forget

20 years of red-pill life couldn't change the fact that I love kids and want my own kids.

I hate myself now for finding the red-pill. I think it saved me from a potential world of hurt, but also ruined a life I could have lived...

A life of being naive, settling down in my early 20s, having multiple kids.

And what purpose did it ultimately serve me? To get better at game and fvck a bunch of women? Great life. Boring, ultimately. Extremely unfulfilling.

Part of me wishes I didn't know what I know. I was angry for the longest time. Now I'm just sad about it all

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

I used to have your mentality. I carried it for most of my life.

I still carry it, though the anger faded and left only reality

Maybe you will want kids one day. Maybe you wont

Then again, maybe you're disgruntled because a woman already fvcked you over...

The best posters in sosuave history were disgruntled divorcees lol

Sh1t, disgruntled divorcees created the red pill and the manosphere. I watched it happen as a teenager, so how could I forget

20 years of red-pill life couldn't change the fact that I love kids and want my own kids.

I hate myself now for finding the red-pill. I think it saved me from a potential world of hurt, but also ruined a life I could have lived...

A life of being naive, settling down in my early 20s, having multiple kids.

And what purpose did it ultimately serve me? To get better at game and fvck a bunch of women? Great life. Boring, ultimately. Extremely unfulfilling.

Part of me wishes I didn't know what I know. I was angry for the longest time. Now I'm just sad about it all

I also came up at the forefront of the red-pill, so there was a lot of anger. A bunch of smart guys who'd been screwed over, looking to vent. Looking to let every other man know

I wish I'd have found sosuave 8 years later. I would have missed all the negativity

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

But life deals you a hand. Play it

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

I used to have your mentality. I carried it for most of my life.

I still carry it, though the anger faded and left only reality

Maybe you will want kids one day. Maybe you wont

Then again, maybe you're disgruntled because a woman already fvcked you over...

The best posters in sosuave history were disgruntled divorcees lol

Sh1t, disgruntled divorcees created the red pill and the manosphere. I watched it happen as a teenager, so how could I forget

20 years of red-pill life couldn't change the fact that I love kids and want my own kids.

I hate myself now for finding the red-pill. I think it saved me from a potential world of hurt, but also ruined a life I could have lived...

A life of being naive, settling down in my early 20s, having multiple kids.

And what purpose did it ultimately serve me? To get better at game and fvck a bunch of women? Great life. Boring, ultimately. Extremely unfulfilling.

Part of me wishes I didn't know what I know. I was angry for the longest time. Now I'm just sad about it all

I started posting again, thinking I would help the youth find the red-pill.

The red-pill is a fvcking mean burden to bare.

I soon realized, I don't want to pass it off to anyone

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Take the fvcking blue pill.

Chance it.

You'll be better off

 

[BaronOfHair]

VMV, are you drunk posting? Recognize I'm likely asking a rhetorical question, nonetheless I couldn't resist the urge to do so

 

[Vanderdonck]

But I don't want her anymore.

So leave her. Quit making excuses.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Look Cypher, you already took the red pill, there is no going back, you're choking on it, swallow it for good.

I choked on it 22 years ago

Took me 15 years to get it down.

I have to remind this woman on a regular basis that we're done. She has a break down every time

Try that on for size and then give me advice

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

VMV, are you drunk posting? Recognize I'm likely asking a rhetorical question, nonetheless I couldn't resist the urge to do so

Absolutely

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

VMV, are you drunk posting? Recognize I'm likely asking a rhetorical question, nonetheless I couldn't resist the urge to do so

You're a beast, dude

I like your style

 

[Bokanovsky]

I want mention that there were no signs. I've been with women that lost interest, and there were always signs.

The signs are alway there. It's just that sometimes we miss those signs...or choose to ignore them. That's not a dig at you, by the way. We are all guilty of this to some extent.

The stoic philosophers, who I love, didn't touch on this subject

Stoic philosophers believed in the four virtues: wisdom, courage, justice and moderation. It seems like you already know what must be done (wisdom). You just need the courage to actually do it.

It's understandable that you would feel conflicted about the whole situation given your history with this woman. But at the end of the day, you simply can't trust her. It also seems that you are using her health issues to rationalize her bad behaviour. But does that really make sense? Why would a woman who goes through a near-death experience suddenly start sexting with her ex? Especially if you've been loyal and supportive during this period. Is it possible that she was doing shady sh!t behind your back even before her health complications and you simply didn't know?