frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
the energy in this place is about the same as a WNBA game!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lifeless board!
- Thread starter frivolousz21
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Black_Italian
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do soemthing about it!!
spider_007
Master Don Juan
Ya I noticed that too, hardley anybody on here anymore.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
Guys I was just thinking, 20 years ago gurls used to cover up their whole body (almost), and considering the latest fasion.... do you think in another 20-30 years, gurls will be walking around totally naked or just in tongs.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
in 20 years NAAAAAA, we might be siborgs tho.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
DUDE!
im not rubbing it in..most guys here dont even want a virgin! I have no other female life going on..so thats all I got!
if i was single i would be field reporting all day
well then again i never was one for sarging..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Eric Clapton
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This place is great!!! I'm a virgin and am a little shy about saying, but I'm an honest guy.....I jack my **** off just about every night sadly b/c I don't know how to interact w/ girls. They scare me.
But I am learning, despite my *** stained fingers,lol. ***** just eludes me, so I am here to learn form all you mad stallions!! Hope you studs can help me out. I'm tired of wacking my **** off every night. Is this normal?
You guys get laid on a regular basis? Obviously, this is my goal! lol.
But I am learning, despite my *** stained fingers,lol. ***** just eludes me, so I am here to learn form all you mad stallions!! Hope you studs can help me out. I'm tired of wacking my **** off every night. Is this normal?
You guys get laid on a regular basis? Obviously, this is my goal! lol.
solid add me to your msn [email protected]
drixsa
Master Don Juan
summer is usually quite slow at ss.com
I usually don't post unless i know the person or find the subjects worthy of interest.
in the 5 yrs this site has been around or in the 3+ years ive been around most subjects have been discussed.
I usually don't post unless i know the person or find the subjects worthy of interest.
in the 5 yrs this site has been around or in the 3+ years ive been around most subjects have been discussed.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
of course everything has already been discussed....dating is an easy game yet a manual to build an F22 along with instructions on how to fly it and features, are shorter than all the discussions on dating....
guys, my msn is [email protected]
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.