"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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S0LID

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:eek: is it hell, I'm back now :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spider_007

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Guys I was just thinking, 20 years ago gurls used to cover up their whole body (almost), and considering the latest fasion.... do you think in another 20-30 years, gurls will be walking around totally naked or just in tongs.
 

S0LID

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wed have evolved by then into snake people I rekkon.
 

frivolousz21

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yeah it is especially those who come on here and rub in others faces how much in love they are with a virgin after 2 months.

DUDE!

im not rubbing it in..most guys here dont even want a virgin! I have no other female life going on..so thats all I got! :)

if i was single i would be field reporting all day :)

well then again i never was one for sarging..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eric Clapton

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This place is great!!! I'm a virgin and am a little shy about saying, but I'm an honest guy.....I jack my **** off just about every night sadly b/c I don't know how to interact w/ girls. They scare me.

But I am learning, despite my *** stained fingers,lol. ***** just eludes me, so I am here to learn form all you mad stallions!! Hope you studs can help me out. I'm tired of wacking my **** off every night. Is this normal?

You guys get laid on a regular basis? Obviously, this is my goal! lol.
 

drixsa

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summer is usually quite slow at ss.com

I usually don't post unless i know the person or find the subjects worthy of interest.

in the 5 yrs this site has been around or in the 3+ years ive been around most subjects have been discussed.
 

undesputable

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Originally posted by drixsa
summer is usually quite slow at ss.com

I usually don't post unless i know the person or find the subjects worthy of interest.

in the 5 yrs this site has been around or in the 3+ years ive been around most subjects have been discussed.
of course everything has already been discussed....dating is an easy game yet a manual to build an F22 along with instructions on how to fly it and features, are shorter than all the discussions on dating....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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