frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
the energy in this place is about the same as a WNBA game!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Black_Italian
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do soemthing about it!!
spider_007
Master Don Juan
Ya I noticed that too, hardley anybody on here anymore.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
Guys I was just thinking, 20 years ago gurls used to cover up their whole body (almost), and considering the latest fasion.... do you think in another 20-30 years, gurls will be walking around totally naked or just in tongs.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
in 20 years NAAAAAA, we might be siborgs tho.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
DUDE!
im not rubbing it in..most guys here dont even want a virgin! I have no other female life going on..so thats all I got!
if i was single i would be field reporting all day
well then again i never was one for sarging..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Eric Clapton
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This place is great!!! I'm a virgin and am a little shy about saying, but I'm an honest guy.....I jack my **** off just about every night sadly b/c I don't know how to interact w/ girls. They scare me.
But I am learning, despite my *** stained fingers,lol. ***** just eludes me, so I am here to learn form all you mad stallions!! Hope you studs can help me out. I'm tired of wacking my **** off every night. Is this normal?
You guys get laid on a regular basis? Obviously, this is my goal! lol.
But I am learning, despite my *** stained fingers,lol. ***** just eludes me, so I am here to learn form all you mad stallions!! Hope you studs can help me out. I'm tired of wacking my **** off every night. Is this normal?
You guys get laid on a regular basis? Obviously, this is my goal! lol.
solid add me to your msn [email protected]
drixsa
Master Don Juan
summer is usually quite slow at ss.com
I usually don't post unless i know the person or find the subjects worthy of interest.
in the 5 yrs this site has been around or in the 3+ years ive been around most subjects have been discussed.
I usually don't post unless i know the person or find the subjects worthy of interest.
in the 5 yrs this site has been around or in the 3+ years ive been around most subjects have been discussed.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
of course everything has already been discussed....dating is an easy game yet a manual to build an F22 along with instructions on how to fly it and features, are shorter than all the discussions on dating....
guys, my msn is [email protected]
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.