"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lifeforce Weightlifting Journal
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tack mannen! har du någon journal nånstans?
Hehe, det var verkligen inte meningen att låta överlägsen - det var ju någon som frågade vad det betydde... tänkte bara att man kunde hjälpa till genom att rätta stavningen.
Nej, jag har inte någon journal uppe... inte än iaf. Fortsätt med det du gör, ser ut att gå jävligt bra för dig
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Det är typ en kille på gymmet som alltid maxar samtidigt som jag gör det, har haft otur med honom, först i knäböjen, sen i militärpressen och sen när jag bänkade, och han tog mer i allt. Fick lite samma känsla. När jag precis har pallat 150 kg så kommer du o drar mer... =D
Semag: It's the secret swedish brotherhood. We're after your toaster, beware! =D
It looks like you got the same "problems" as me - My legs are strong compared to the rest of my body, or at least it used to be so before my rows went way up these last couple of months. It's pretty sick - I squat 145kg for 3reps ass to grass and I barbell row 150kg for 10reps.
It's about time for my legs to become my "strong side" again. Going to take good care of my diet and rest a lot this summer and will strive for a squat @ 180kg. Hey, even if I won't reach my goals I might as well set high standards - reach for the sky baby :crackup: :cheer:
Guys, it's time to show people how it's supposd to be done
Squat 5x125 kg 275 lbs New Record
Squat 3+1assistx130 kg 286 lbs New Record
Squat 2x130 kg 286 lbs
Squat 3x125 kg 275 lbs
I think I was tired since yesterday. I also noticed I only go about 85° down instead of paralell, I will not up weights to 5x130 next week, instead I will go lower at 125 kg.
Speed SLDL: 3x60 kg 132 lbs perfect muscle contact
Speed SLDL: 3x80 kg 176 lbs too heavy
Speed SLDL: 3x60 kg 132 lbs
Speed SLDL: 3x60 kg 132 lbs
Speed SLDL: 3x60 kg 132 lbs
Push press 5x65 kg 142 lbs New Record
Farmer's walk 36 m 51.4 kg 113 lbs per db New Record
Farmer's walk 38 m 51.4 kg 113 lbs per db New Record
(got no heavier db)
Shrugs 5x51.4 kg 113 lbs <-- grip was dead after FW.
Throw db overhead 1x16.4 kg 40 lbs
Throw db overhead 1x18.9 kg 45 lbs
Throw db overhead 1x23.9 kg 55 lbs
Throw db overhead 1x26.4 kg 60 lbs
Throw db overhead 1x31.4 kg 70 lbs
Throw db overhead 0x34.2 kg 75 lbs
Throw db overhead 1x34.2 kg 75 lbs
(never tried before)
(stretching)
Weight: 79.8 kg 175 lbs with clothes, without shoes.
Felt like an OK workout.
Double: yes actually we do. I'm so emotional right now I could kill myself and everyone around me.
Slump: **** dude, are your barbell rows for real or do you mean deadlifts? Good luck with acheiving your goal!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i meant i think the movie is unrealistic. not because he is unbeatable but because he drinks beer, and you dont see him eat any protein. And with this body, come on some winstrol injecting would be a little bit more realistic than drinking beer with his old buddys
if the movies would be kept more realistic like the rock drinking a protein shake instead of beer, or brad pitt in troja eating ****loadz of meat than the people would understand much better the bodybuilding lifestyle and i wouldnt be faced with **** questions about the food im eating. ****ing unrealistic movies ruining everything for us!"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.