Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Life without alcohol?

BeyondCharm

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Columbia said:
I have been 100% sober since birth, and the only person who has ever reacted negatively to that is my father, who is a wife-beating, alcoholic, sh*twad anyway.

Whenever a girl asks me if I drink I usually act a bit disgusted and turn it around on her. She goes straight onto the defensive and tries to downplay how much she drinks, when I know damn well that she was about to try and tell me about how drunk she was last night.

I'm in a long-term relationship, but every so often girls come along to try and win me for themselves. The first thing they usually do is "give up" drinking. They go straight back to it once I tell them that I'm not interested.

So yeah, portray it as a positive thing (which it is anyway) and that's how people will see it. Good luck dude :up:
Congratulations on learning from your fathers condition and making a conscious decision to be sober and not fall down into the oblivion known as alcohol!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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