"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Life without alcohol?

BeyondCharm

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Columbia said:
I have been 100% sober since birth, and the only person who has ever reacted negatively to that is my father, who is a wife-beating, alcoholic, sh*twad anyway.

Whenever a girl asks me if I drink I usually act a bit disgusted and turn it around on her. She goes straight onto the defensive and tries to downplay how much she drinks, when I know damn well that she was about to try and tell me about how drunk she was last night.

I'm in a long-term relationship, but every so often girls come along to try and win me for themselves. The first thing they usually do is "give up" drinking. They go straight back to it once I tell them that I'm not interested.

So yeah, portray it as a positive thing (which it is anyway) and that's how people will see it. Good luck dude :up:
Congratulations on learning from your fathers condition and making a conscious decision to be sober and not fall down into the oblivion known as alcohol!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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