"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Life is too short...

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djzulu

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I haven't posted here in a while, but as usual things are not good and it's time to make a change. This is my current situation:

I have been seeing 3 girls during the past 6-8 months or so, they know that they are not exclusive but 2 have fallen for me and I have to stop seeing them.

I am working 24/7, growing old and neglecting my true passions. This has to stop!

I know that everytime i post in this forum things start changing and that's why I am posting today, here are my goals for the next week:

1. To start interacting with girls, and with people in general
2. To start following my passions and bring some meaning into my life
3. To work less
4. To stop seeing the current 3 girls

I really believe that we need to enjoy everyday on this planet regardless of our age, and as we get older the days go by faster and we have to enjoy life before it passes us by.

Will keep you posted.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mavrick

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the more importance yo put on something the harder it will be. The more you attach negative consequences to what it is you want to change, the harder you'll find it is to change.

Start by changing your thoughts and beliefs about the situation, and you'll find that it's so much easier to do.
 
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Vulpine

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A word of advice: don't be reactive, be proactive.

Instead of "reacting" to your current situation, and taking steps from that vantage point, consider a goal or a future situation and make decisions from THAT vantage point.

If you have a goal, your choices will lead you to that goal. If you make changes just for the sake of change, or reacting to present situations, then you won't get anywhere: you'll find yourself going in circles.

djzulu said:
1. To start interacting with girls, and with people in general
2. To start following my passions and bring some meaning into my life
3. To work less
4. To stop seeing the current 3 girls
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This list is vague, and based on the current situation you are in.

#2 and #3 should be at the top of the list, #1 should be at the bottom of the list, and #4 would happen automatically if you actually accomplish #1.

It's good to be motivated, but without direction, efforts are wasted.

If you set a goal, you might find that you want to work MORE in order to work LESS in the future. Your goal might include your passions, or be set to accommodate or facilitate your passions, so that might happen automatically as a result of striving to meet, or having met your goal.



So I say be "proactive" in your changes with an eye toward the future instead of the present.

Good luck.:up:
 
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