"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wheelin&dealin

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I can't believe how things change so quickly. I was just dumped hard by my girlfriend of 3 years about a week ago. After 3 days of feeling depressed and loserish.. Now I don't have any resentment towards her and I have no emotional attachment to her. I feel unbelievable! On top of that I just picked up some broad that is about 18 percentage points hotter than her. Life is good when things workout!


BTW, I'll keep you guys posted as to when I get dumped hard by this new girl... lol. :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey Wheelin',

Great to hear buddy! If I were you, I would have as much fun as possible with this new gal. It's going to be refreshing hanging out with a new, and happier, woman. Enjoy!
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Enjoy being in the moment, no looking back! :up:
 
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stevera004

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
I can't believe how things change so quickly. I was just dumped hard by my girlfriend of 3 years about a week ago. After 3 days of feeling depressed and loserish.. Now I don't have any resentment towards her and I have no emotional attachment to her. I feel unbelievable! On top of that I just picked up some broad that is about 18 percentage points hotter than her. Life is good when things workout!


BTW, I'll keep you guys posted as to when I get dumped hard by this new girl... lol. :p
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It isn't that you feel great and IN ADDITION you are bangin' a hottie; it is because you are bangin' a hottie that it's so easy to let the old one go.

Props.
 
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