"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wheelin&dealin

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I can't believe how things change so quickly. I was just dumped hard by my girlfriend of 3 years about a week ago. After 3 days of feeling depressed and loserish.. Now I don't have any resentment towards her and I have no emotional attachment to her. I feel unbelievable! On top of that I just picked up some broad that is about 18 percentage points hotter than her. Life is good when things workout!


BTW, I'll keep you guys posted as to when I get dumped hard by this new girl... lol. :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheTrimReaper

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Hey Wheelin',

Great to hear buddy! If I were you, I would have as much fun as possible with this new gal. It's going to be refreshing hanging out with a new, and happier, woman. Enjoy!
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Enjoy being in the moment, no looking back! :up:
 
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stevera004

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
I can't believe how things change so quickly. I was just dumped hard by my girlfriend of 3 years about a week ago. After 3 days of feeling depressed and loserish.. Now I don't have any resentment towards her and I have no emotional attachment to her. I feel unbelievable! On top of that I just picked up some broad that is about 18 percentage points hotter than her. Life is good when things workout!


BTW, I'll keep you guys posted as to when I get dumped hard by this new girl... lol. :p
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It isn't that you feel great and IN ADDITION you are bangin' a hottie; it is because you are bangin' a hottie that it's so easy to let the old one go.

Props.
 
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