life beyond girls - any good advice?

[escobar04]

ok, just to get staright to the point-my life with women is totally fine, I have no problems with girls whatsoever but.....theres more to life than jut that

question is what do you do?

look, Im 19 going on 20 and Im studying Business at school and hate it, I much rather do Psychology but it seems like one of those majors that you'll go back to shcool to study something else and it seems impossible to get a good job without good education

so what do you guys do? school? work a ****ty job? stock market? banker? FOREX? or do you not even think about tommorow and live for the day?

what are your guys' ways to make it in life?

I know a lot of us are in this bullsh!t stage in life where we're trying to figure out what to do so lets do it together

 

[Demon]

What Makes DJs Different.

If you would rather study psychology, study psychology. It's definitely not a useless major. Just like business education, you can apply psychology to most facets of your life and career.

 

[realsmoothie]

ok, just to get staright to the point-my life with women is totally fine, I have no problems with girls whatsoever but.....theres more to life than jut that

question is what do you do?

look, Im 19 going on 20 and Im studying Business at school and hate it, I much rather do Psychology but it seems like one of those majors that you'll go back to shcool to study something else and it seems impossible to get a good job without good education

so what do you guys do? school? work a ****ty job? stock market? banker? FOREX? or do you not even think about tommorow and live for the day?

what are your guys' ways to make it in life?

I know a lot of us are in this bullsh!t stage in life where we're trying to figure out what to do so lets do it together

If you're going to school and don't like what you're taking... STOP. Go travelling. Get a job bartending in Australia. Join the Peace Corps. Join the army!

If you want to go to school but just don't know what you want to take, grab the school calendar and find classes that look interesting. Take them. I don't care if you end up with one philosophy, one business, one French, one biology and one film studies. It's the only way you'll find out what you're interested in.

The key here is: what's the rush? I know that the dominant message on this board is to get your sh*t together as early as you can financially... screw that. If your brain is all messed up by working at a job you don't like when you're 25 you're going to be in trouble when you're 35.

Trust me, I'm 32.

 

[insanity]

this to me was almost as vital as figuring out womens advice is pretty much useless and never gets you a girlfriend or laid. it's shocking but don't listen to your parents advice. it's outdated material. what worked for them 20 to 30 years ago doesn't really work now, unless they changed with the times which is very rare. when your dad calls you dude, well...nice try dad but that was so 80's.

i love my parents and yes they only want whats best for you. but they also want whats best for them. like bragging rights, that you completed university that'll make them proud. or your working here or there.

everytime i listened to my parents i ended up doing something that wasn't for me and i hated it. when i didn't listen to anyones advice and followed my own vices man those were some of the greatest moments of being alive.

some people have a hard time figuring out what they are put here on this earth to do. give it some time and don't rush into things. it will reveal itself.

women are just a bonus in this great journey through life. if you enjoy what your doing it won't be hard attracting the greatest woman you will ever meet.

life is meant to be enjoyed and people forget that. go have a riot at whatever makes you happy

plastic surgeon gets his kicks from people thanking him. i get my kicks from my woman rolling over and thanking me for a wild romp in the hay.

 

[DJ_in_making]

escobar, they say its better to have a job you enjoy that doesn't pay well then one you hate that pays great.

 

[escobar04]

yeah thats what im thinking

I have all my GE done so its just up to me choosing a career

I just wanna be good finacially but lets take a look at some of my managers, I work at A&F and all my managers have a 4-year degree in something, doesnt matter, but what and they make.....$11.50 and hour

so you sh!t like that and think, man, Am I wasting my time in school? maybe I should just become a truck driver or something

what else do you guys do? can I get some life stories of school, careers and finances?

 

[Demon]

There's more to career-building than an education. After all, it ain't called career-building for nothin'!