Lieing about Age...and Telling?

[WORKEROUTER]

Before I started going out with my gf, I had lied about my age (being a year older than I really was)...I was actually 17, but I said I'm 18, turning 19. She was 19 turning 20.

I figured nothing would really materialize anyway. But now that my b-day is fast approaching, she still thinks I am a year older than I am. There are many instances where age comes up in convo, and I have to play it cool like I really am older.

So anyway, I'm caught in a minor dilemna...should I eventually tell her? Or should I just continue playing it cool?

 

[WORKEROUTER]

double

 

[00Kevin]

you can just out right tell her like you don't care and that is doesn't matter.


say, "guess what? yeah... I bull****ed you about my age. I'm really only 18. yeah.. I didn't think you were worth much of anything then, but I guess I was wong. "

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Before I started going out with my gf, I had lied about my age (being a year older than I really was)...I was actually 17, but I said I'm 18, turning 19. She was 19 turning 20.

I figured nothing would really materialize anyway. But now that my b-day is fast approaching, she still thinks I am a year older than I am. There are many instances where age comes up in convo, and I have to play it cool like I really am older.

So anyway, I'm caught in a minor dilemna...should I eventually tell her? Or should I just continue playing it cool?

Minor dilemma? Dude, this is a MAJOR dilemma. You lied. When she finds out that you lied about this she's going to wonder what else you've lied about. Never lie...

 

[Happiness Renewed]

Just enjoy that happy period between the lie and the time it's found out.

 

[penkitten]

lying about your age is bad!

however , if you speak up now you might can salvage something.

what you need to say is, " i lied about my age because i felt that you would not give me the chance if i told you the truth. i hope that you can forgive me for this , but my intentions were good.
and now that you know me for who i am, even with my age, do you think that you would want to give me a chance"?


this should clear things up and she may act a little upset for a day or two, but be persistant... she will still be your girl.

if you call her and she tries to say , you are too young for me or something... say," you know you had a blast with me the other day. but whatever if thats the way you feel i will leave you alone ."

she will think about it and then call you right back.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Have doggy style sex with her the day before your birthday.













Just in case.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

She already considers me to be young..usually she goes for older guys.

The problem is that if I told her, she would start thinking that I've been lieing about stuff all along, which isn't good.

At the same time, continuing to play that I'm older is producing more and more sub-lies, thus deepening it.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Re: Re: Lieing about Age...and Telling?

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Minor dilemma? Dude, this is a MAJOR dilemma. You lied. When she finds out that you lied about this she's going to wonder what else you've lied about. Never lie...

So what should be done?

 

[Julian]

Are you spending the day with her on your bday?