I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I know that about the wife-part.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:I think Jesus meant having sex with a hooker is sinful.. not sex in general.
Btw if you wait until marriage, doesn't mean your wife has also waited.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If neither of you have spouses, it's legit.Luke Skywalker said:I know that about the wife-part.
Jesus reference to sex is upholding what the ten commandments say - that is thou shalt not commit adultery, and extending that to having an intent to commit adultery being as bad as actually committing the act spiritually in God's eyes. Paul's letters further extends this to include any forms of sex that are not between spouces.
That is blasphemy.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:If neither of you have spouses, it's legit.
Who knows, maybe even Jesus got laid daily.. he did have many followers.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I never said it's true, but how could you determine it's not true?Luke Skywalker said:That is blasphemy.
That is the spirit of anti-christ.Danger said:Jesus was just a man. Get over it.